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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I Care About My Lack of Title With Special Guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I am a single mom who is on disability due to my advanced rheumatoid arthritis. After some bad experiences dating several years ago, I decided to focus on my kids since dating was a hassle. Despite my R.A., I am quite attractive, and am able to ...

I sexted another girl ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend 5 months now and i have really strong feelings for her but a while back i did something i'm not proud of...i sexted another girl.This is my first relationship so I don't know how things work or what could possibly ruin ...

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I ...

We rushed in too soon but is he backing out now? Was he ever serious? How should I approach this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I have less than 16 days to do something about this relationship. Please help. I met a guy on a double date five months ago. We hit it off and we talked everyday even though he moved back to the UK the day after we met. I did caution him that...

What should I do to stop his passive-aggressive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Well, I need some opinion and advice me please on what should I do? My boyfriend and me been together for 5 years and things went rocky lately, he broke up with me 3 days ago, before he break up with me, he'd told me several times about his ...

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3682 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other ...

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything ...

I want her to know I love her but I don't want to pressure her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for just about a year now. she is 21 and i am 29. everything has been going very well. i love her and she says she loves me. we have a lot in common and always have fun. never fight. her family likes me and my family ...

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

My boyfriend hasn't responded since our argument 2 weeks ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a widower and we had a few words during a row after i complained to him that he does not repond to my calls for days and up to a week at a time and 2 weeks ago i said to him that i could be dead and he would not care and have not ...

I'm tired of being blindsided by being told stuff I've done wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - I have no clue how to respond or handle my girlfriend. She has this habit of blindsiding me when I least expect it. We will spend a few days in a row together and I will think everything is great and amazing. Next thing I know, I'm waking up to a 10 ...

I know he isn't God's gift to women like he says, but I can't seem to get away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3684 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in a very emotionally abusive relationship. I knew its abusive cause 1. He often threatens to break up when i get angry or talk back or irritate him by calling him even once a day 2. Ignores me for days and then talks as if...

He says I should just get over his behaviour with these other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Part of me wants to end my relationship with my bf of 2 years, yet I don't know by doing this, am I making the right decision? He used to flirt with a friend of ours a lot, so much so I felt uncomfortable. They texted everyday, she sent him her...

I yearn for true love, harmony and happiness, again. But how? Is it too much to ask for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I miss my ex so much. Me and him broke up almost 10 years ago. We both moved on and I got married, divorced and contacted him, and he got in and out of several relationships, but today he doesn´t seem to be interrested. He was my first real...

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a coup...

We're back together but "not labeled"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hey all so me and my ex or whatever you wanna call him broke up 5 months ago. And we decided that we wanted to work things out so he moved back in with me and here it is 5 months later and he still lives with me we do everything we did when we was ...

Should I follow my instincts and just walk away before it's too late, or tell my G/f up front that her lack of interest/effort is becoming a cause for concern?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - Hello all. Just wondering what people's thoughts were on this situation: My g/f and I have been together for just over a year. We live about 25miles apart, and we usually see each other once or twice a week and every other weekend. The...

I don't care about what he's done to me but he cant just abandon our child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Looking for some guidance on what to do here!! I have posted here before about this waster of a man I've spent the last 4 yrs with and I got some great advice. Just to quickly give u some back ground.. i'm 26. I've been with a man 14 years my seni...

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad ...

He's become distant and seems bored with the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone.. So me and my boyfriend has been in long term relationship and he's serious about our relationship and take me into his life. He's so caring and loving man that I know. He used to treat me so good and accept me for who I am. He ...

Confused, but better than most!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I have been married for 8 year and have known my wife for 10. I have a near photographic memory and remember many things that people tell me. 10 years ago I contracted an STD from my wife. She found out she had it from a medical checkup. No big ...

My mum is ruining my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - First of all, I’d like to say that I am not a native English speaker so please, forgive my spelling mistakes! Sooo, here is the story. I am 24 and I live at my mother’s place with my younger sister (16 years old) – and no father - after spending 6...

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationshi...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

I told him I wanted him out of my life but he won't move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I'm back, some of you probably read my firt question and i must say i got some great advice, so here we go again. Just a reminder of what i had going on, I had been questioning about if i had fallen out of love with my guy, after countless trips to ...

He has an explanation for everything but I still have trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - Hi..I am having a very difficult moment when I am not longer know who I am..I am with this guy for 8 months and I felt in love very fast and we moved together after 3 months..we share everything and we both help each other..the bad thing is I am ...

I need to end this unstable relationship without anybody getting hurt physically?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - Hey, so I'm having a big issue here in my relationship. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months, and I'm starting to think that things are not going to get better. I met this guy on a dating website, right after my boyfriend and I of 11 months ...

How do I cope with my alcoholic boyfriend while I gear up to leaving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I think my boyfriend of 6 years is an alcoholic. We met when I was 18 and he was 20, and we've both always been social drinkers and have grown up together in the pub culture. He has always drunk maybe 6 times a week, but not enough to get drunk on ...

I feel like we are no longer a family- just outsiders watching him and his family enjoy their time together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - My daughters father supervises visits between his son and ex wife. He invites her over to our place- and doesn't ask me first how I feel. Their interaction has gone as far as since the visits, he has spent most- minus two, of his days off with his ...

My 36 year old boyfriend is extremely damaged. I'm ready to give up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years but he's so damaged I'm ready to throw in the towel. His entire life has been a fucked up mess and he refuses to do anything about it. I'm going to tell you about his childhood/past relationships first ...

Is it normal to feel disappointed in your relationship?Should a partner make you feel special somehow? And what if they don't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - Is it normal to feel disappointed in your relationship? I've been with my bf for 4 years. He asked me to marry him 2 1/2 years ago and I felt shocked as marriage was never something I wanted with anyone at all, which he knew. I didn't want to upset...

Do we let this go, not being invited to fiance's grand child's 1st birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - My fiancé's daughter had their first child and it's my fiancé's first grand child. My fiancé is divorced. His daughter is close to her mother and her in-laws. I was not invited to the baby shower that the daughter's grandma (her mother's mother)...

My wife treats and speaks to me as though I am incompetent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 November 2014 (M) - My wife of 1 1/2 years treats and speaks to me as though I am incompetent and unable to make the "right" decision. I am almost 62 years old and have managed to take of matters just fine all this time. My wife has a different and more stressful ...

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore? Am I not good enough? Is he seeing someone that looks better than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - Ok so when me and my boyfriend met i was 15 pounds lighter, Iam still not overweight and look average for a 28 year old woman but i feel there is something missing and i can't figure out what it is. He used to be so into me and our sex life was ...

He pulls the disappearing act but gets upset when I do it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has made it clear he doesn't like it when I don't answer his calls or text back right away. However, he has previously gone out drinking all night and failed to tell me and I'm left wondering when he goes MIA for hours. L...

My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been in my relationship for 16 years. I have 2 kids with this man and 2 from my marriage. My current boyfriend can't seem to stop looking at dirty magazines despite knowing how it makes me feel. I have explained my feelings to him ...

My boyfriend is not speaking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Hey guys, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, it has been a relatively good relationship until we hit a speed bump about two months ago when we started fighting a lot about the same thing over and over again. He ap...

Images of him sleeping with her are driving me mad! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years has gone to Europe for a seminar. He is there for past 1 week, will be back next week end. He went along with his coworker/boss with whom he has a crush on. She is married with kids. My bf is kind of lean towards ...

How do I put my foot down so he knows his behavior won't be tolerated anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years (except a 4 month break) and I'm to the point that I'm not happy. I feel lonely and neglected. I broke up with him 5 months ago because he'd started neglecting me, wouldn't contact me and made ...

Am I wrong for always thinking of him? even though he's hurt me so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend just broke up AGAIN for good, he was the first guy I've ever loved and it hurts like hell. But theres a story behind it all..the first time we broke up was around March after spring break where he started talking to some ...

I wish that life would give me a break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - I need help, a friendly advice.. I have lost so much faith and strenght in life. I have been through a lot the past 15 years in my life. less than ten years ago, I started my dream education together with my ex boyfriend. But we broke up ( ...

Is he horrible or mentally ill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years and it was great for 6 months but then something horrible happened to me and I became extremely depressed. My partner helped me through that although at times it was awful, I didn't know if it was all my ...

My wife hides vodka around the house.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

18 November 2014 (M) - Hi Biggy issue. My wife drinks every night. Varying from half bottle of wine to half bottle of half bottle of vodka.? She spends roughly £60 to £80 a month on booze. I myself don't drink. Havent done for 2 yrs. Had a mishap w...

He doesn't seem to understand that I can't text at work! How can I make it sink it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - Is there any way I can stop my man being so needy? I love him to bits and he is everything I want in a partner but he's very clingy and dependant on me which is really starting to annoy me. He texts me all day every day. At his job he can. At my job ...

Why would he change his FB status? Could we be friends? I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - So almost seven months ago, around easter I broke up with my ex because our relationship had too many people involved trying to cause problems on top of us already having our own. He then randomly messaged me in august just saying sup? I tried to be ...

When it comes to sex she calls the shots

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

18 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend Is controlling sexually she keeps rejecting me every time if try to have sex. It's destroying our relationship so much, I try to talk she won't We have sex 1time a month on her command. It is destroying my masculinity Help me flip...

I feel he is still looking for other women whilst sleeping with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for just under 4 weeks. We met on Tinder and our dates have been wonderful. At the weekend I stayed at his and we slept together a lot on saturday and once on sunday before i left. We had a wonderful romantic time. He text ...

Does my best friend like my boyfriend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - So i met my boyfriend through my best friend, they've now gone to uni together and are living in the same house. I was always hesistant to start a relationship with this guy even though i had strong feelings for him. My best friend 'used' to have ...

I had a feeling he was texting other girls, and he was! How do I approach this as it will reveal I went through his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. Recently I haven't been feeling the same, like I still love him but I get the feeling he doesn't. Things have changed a little over the weekend and I don't like the way it's going. I had a feeling he was ...