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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm having an ongoing fight with my boyfriend. Was his comment about calling okay? How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hi all..so my boyfriend and I had a fight 5 days ago-well not really a fight, so here's what happened: wie just made up from another fight and sunday he cooked dinner for me. He told me that he's still looking for a job and just can't find anything ...

How can I defend myself against this worker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone. I apologise for the length of this problem. OKAY so I am quite an easy going person. I respond to banter, even the odd jokey name calling and can take a joke as well as the next person. But I am also very shy, sensitive and som...

How many marriages start with the girl twisting the guys arm?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - I'm wondering in general how many marriages start with the girl twisting the guys arm?! I just heard two stories of girls I know. One moved out of her apartment and refused to move back in until her boyfriend proposed... Which he did after three ...

Is porn getting in the way of our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - My bf is 22 and I am 24. He watches porn A LOT. As in, a few times a day. I know that most men look at porn, but is this like normal? Our sex life is ok but I feel it sometimes comes to a point where he prefers watching porn over having sex. (He, ...

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the ...

My husband's chasing another woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed ...

Is the girl in my class jealous of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - There is a girl in my class who is annoying me. Whenever I'm happy she tries to make me down. And she always tries to call me fat, stupid and ugly and imperfect. Whenever a guy compliments and flirts with me, she acts like she is not listening. And ...

I'm having trouble accepting newly found step-siblings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - My father had two daughters outside of his marriage 23 yrs ago. Although I knew about it, I prayed it was not true because it will crush me. I grew up looking up to this man as responsible. My whole life seems to be shattered now because of this. ...

How can I get my boyfriend to trust living with me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - We've been together for almost a year and a half and lived together for 10mo. We've been having a lot of arguments and most of the time it is him misunderstanding something and having short tempers. His divorce finalized last December and he has one ...

I haven't told my boyfriend I'm pregnant yet, and now I'm back to checking his phone for texts! I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Is it ever possible to truly move on from finding out your other half has cheated on you? The reason I ask is because for the past ten months, since getting back with my boyfriend since finding out he had cheated on with a mutual friend, I have tho...

Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (firs...

Do I wait for this girl to get out of this teenage phase if she does love me? Or do I force myself to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Hi all, Never used one of these sites before but I am currently feeling rather lonely and upset about my current situation. I think I better try to explain the situation: Well, I have known this girl for a while, probably 2 years. Im 23 a...

What is the deal with my husband and this strange woman?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a newlywed. 6 months married. I am starting to see some really off things about my husband and I want to get some advice or opinions from others. I love my husband, he has some wonderful qualities but I think I may have made a mistake in ...

I just cant seem to make decent friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests ...

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...

Is this relationship OCD or am I out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am lost here. Every time I have a disagreement or see something I don't like in my boyfriend, I immediately go to the 'we're not right for each other' place and it's driving me a little crazy. I've been with him for years. I've broken up with him ...

Is this man a sleaze bucket or am I a prude?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I recently went on a first date with a guy in the public services blue uniform high up who I met online. He tried to kiss me intimately outside a pub in the car park which I found embarrassing and then text me later that he was going to be doing ...

He is never there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship for three and a half years with a guy I met in high school. I am currently in my second year of college while he opted not to go to college. I have school and a part time job while he has been around u...

Has my relationship run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3867 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone so I need some advice. Has my relationship ran its courae.? I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At the beginning we got along so great he gave me everything I wanted in a relationship he made me feel ...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

My ex broke up with me, lashed out at me and left me bawling my eyes out, so why is it he's still trying to hurt/and or get a response from me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Ok, long story as short as possible. My ex and I were together for 4 years. Towards the end things got absolutely horrible. We couldn't be around one another without fighting. He became a totally changed person. His entire attitude about me and our ...

My boyfriend always wakes me up with the words 'I gotta to kick you out'!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I have a question about how a boy friend normally wakes a girl up in the morning. This guy I have been seeing for several months now always wakes me up with the words 'I gotta to kick you out. It's not very romantic and an awful way to have to be ...

I'm scared of my ex and feel extreme fear, panic, anxiety and pain yet I cant seem to get over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

27 April 2014 (M) - Don't know if this in the right place for this? Anyone who has been through something similar your advice would be gratefully appreciated. Sorry if I'm a bit candid. My ex is a psychiatrist. She was controlling, abusive, cheated on me. She psyc...

Can my boyfriend change his controlling, possessive ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Is it possible for a person to change there controlling ways? Been together with my boyfriend for 4 years and he is everything I could wish for but the last 6 months he's become very controlling. I have started a new job which is very physical...

I went away for the night and he didn't say good night or good morning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a pretty big argument last week and basically he thinks we spend too much time together and he needs a bit of space. Even though we were getting along well yesterday and he said that I needn't bother - I booked into a hotel ...

His focus is not on me anymore. Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need to start by saying i feel like a stupid teenager for feeling the way i do bout the changes in my relationship. Like i'm being a whiney, clingy, insecure, jealous teeny-bopper. But, this is how I feel, so here goes. We've been together 10 ...

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is w...

He's pressuring me to get pregnant

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I've been in a relationship with my bf for three years and three months. I'm 25 and he's 29. Since the beginning of our relationship, he told me that he wanted to settle down and start a family. I told him, that while I wanted to...

Why is my boyfriend secretly meeting up with my ex friend, when we agreed not to see her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I've got (had) a good friend who made it clear she liked my boyfriend. She instantly liked him but whenever we had an argument she would always side with him and text him make sure he was OK and I wouldn't hear from her for ages! One time she w...

I am falling for the wrong guy. How do I forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Dear all, Please help me The thing is am falling for a wrong guy. Though he never directly told me anything everybody feels he likes me but the problem is his nature and my nature doesn't match and he is too dominating at present. We are just fri...

I hooked up with my ex, but we're both seeing other people. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as it can be! I broke up with my ex a few months ago. The break-up was sudden, but I was at a point in my life where I felt I was being tied down: he wanted to settle and I didn't, I also felt that I needed to be sin...

Girlfriend doesn't drink often, but when she does it's hell! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Hi I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years so it's not something I want to just end. But I'm having a serious problem with my girlfriend and when she drinks. She's far from a alcoholic, she will drink only once or twice every couple of months...

Is it always the guy's fault when things go wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Its going to be a long story so please be patient. In Dec 2010, I met this girl in a party, we clicked instantly and hooked up in the next week itself. 2011 was a breeze, we had an amazing time, took vacations, had sex like crazy. We were a fun co...

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

This question has 66 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

I'm ill and want to rest... now my girlfriend doesn't think I want to see her! Was it something I said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - This feels like such a stupid question to have to ask, in the circumstances especially, but I wondered if someone could help. I last saw my girlfriend on Thursday morning. Through the day I started to come down with cold-like symptoms. On Fri...

I just can't get over my ex co-worker.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - So I have been totally ruined my life because of this situation. I love my boss a lot. I am a woman too, I was not gay in my whole of my life. When I saw her first time she attracted me, I didn't feel like that for any of other girl. I was thin...

I worry I am reading too much into his flirty, chatty talks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Say you see a person of the opposite sex every day and you always have interesting conversations about random things. Or maybe they always ask "how are you?" when you come in and ask about your day. Could this be possibly be flirting? Or am ...

He is out of my life and I want him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - Hello guys. It's been a long time since I last posted a question on here, but I've been drawn back to this website as I am currently obsessing over a man who hurt me around 2.5 years ago. Basically, I got into a reflective discussion with ...

I am not sure if its worth investing the time or not ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I ended a two year relationship within the last six months. I feel like I've finally accepted what our relationship was and why it didn't work and feel like I'm able to move on. About two months ago, I met someone and we had th...

He says he is unhappy and doesn't want to be with me either.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and let me just say this has been the hardest relationship I have ever been in! We've had some rough patches in our relationship we both suck at relationships! There's some months when we fight non ...

We lost the passion and I need to rekindle the spark…

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 April 2014 (M) - My Fiancé and I are currently getting back in the groove of becoming a normal couple again after we had a huge fallout, One of the things that happened is that she lost all of the excitement and passion.. And even though we are slowly bonding again ...

If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on ...

I want to make this relationship work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - Hi guys I've been in a relationship for 4 years now with my boyfriend. He is not really great as a bf but then i love him to bits and we have a bond that will keep us together forever. he's mean to me at times and cares more about his own fe...

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get...

Too Good to be true? Yet he can be VERY controlling. To the point that he scares me sometimes. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I would like some level-headed unbiased advice on this please. My boyfriend is so good in so many ways but a few traits let him down and I don't know whether these should be deal breakers. We've been together 2 years. I have two children from a...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

Wonderful second weekend date with my ex and now he seems distant! My heart hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me last year around thanksgiving and it crushed me. We just went on a second weekend date in a beautiful hotel and went to a concert. Then the next day we started our day in the hot tub drinking mimosa's. We continued to drink and ...

I don't want to play this no contact game with him anymore, I'm too old for it. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 3 years, we r currently in LDR as he has some job assignments outside country. We used to talk atleast once a day even if its for 10 mts Long story short, for past few months he is not calling me when I do, ...

I'm feeling jealous and angry towards my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

24 April 2014 (M) - I am 21, i have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We love each other and we love to be around each other.she is very social, goes to the bar a lot with her friends amongst other activities. But lately I find myelf frustrated and lonely. I ...