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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I had a pretty big argument last week and basically he thinks we spend too much time together and he needs a bit of space. Even though we were getting along well yesterday and he said that I needn't bother - I booked into a hotel last night, I didn't text him and I gave him his space.I think it may have been our first night apart in over a year and I know this is silly but I didn't get a good morning or a good night text, does this mean he didn't think about me at all? It's just that even when we are together I get a good morning hug and kiss and at least a kiss at night?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2014): Space means space, including not texting. Texting is a demand for attention in these circumstances. You needed to show that you could let him be.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 April 2014):
 He was just enjoying his space and giving you yours.
It is what happens next you should focus on
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2014): You didn't send HIM a goodnight or good morning text either but I bet you'd be affronted if he or anyone suggested that your lack of contact meant that you hadn't thought about him at all.
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