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writes:Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second child. He always puts words into my mouth even when I didnt say them. I am getting to the point where im not really sexually attracted to him anymore but I still love him. He is very attached to me and I dont want to hurt him. I just want my very own apt. I also suffer from depression and anxiety which is caused somewhat by him and also being pregnant. He try to accuse me of not wanting my baby, but I want my baby more than I want him. Im just trying to find a way to kinda move on with my life being in my own apt and not living with him anymore. I dont know what to do. I dont want to hurt him. He is a very nice person and he always treat me with respect. Im just not happy in the situation. Should I stay unhappy in the situation or get out of it and be happy?
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reader, django  +, writes (25 January 2009):
To answer that question we'd have to know what your reasoning for all of this is. Why should you get separate apartments? You say you don't want to break up with him, yet you also say you "want to move on with your life not living with him anymore". I doubt anybody can give you a precise answer to anything as long as the situation is a mystery.
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reader, littlemomma +, writes (25 January 2009):
 I'd recomend sticking it out until the baby is born. You could just be feeling this way 'cause your pg. If you have the baby and you still feel this way, then ya get your own place. But at least rule out all options first if that makes sense. Make sure this is what you REALLY want!Best of luck!
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