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writes:I have been married for 7 months and with him for 6 years. I have a 12 year old daughter from a previous relationship .My husband and I have had various problems like most couples and my daughter and him do not get on, I know she would prefer it if he left and sometimes I would , but when I build up the courage to tell him to go I always chicken out. I dont know if this is because I love him or I feel sorry for him.At the moment he is not here but I am starting to feel bad, should I stick to my guns? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): LOL! We can always count on pvtguy to tell it exactly how he sees it!! And I have to agree with him...Six years together and then after only 7 months you want to throw in the towel???? You must have known in the previous six years how your daughter felt. Why all of a sudden, her opinion counts? Or maybe it is that you realize now that you made a mistake and you are using your daughter as a scapegoat?
Try to do some soul-searching and figure out what's really going on with you. It boggles my mind that people can be with a person for so long and they marry and it's over in a matter of months! What's really going on?
Another point I would like to make is that adolecents can be very manipulating. Step back and look at the whole picture!
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