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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My bf wants us to live together but isn't ready for marrige. I am also attracted to this other guy who likes me back. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am almost 26 and have been dating a man for 4 years. I bought a house and want to marry him. I know he is not ready yet. He is applying to Pharmacy school and wants me to move with him. I don't want to give up my good job or my house for ...

I dont think its going to work out but he is my only friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. I came over New Jersey on the train last night. It took me 3 and a half hours to get here to see my boyfriend. Besides coming here to see him I also came to go out and have some fun with him cuz ever since I moved to ...

My husband spends most of his time at work and not at home. I have also taken a liking to one of his co-workers. I can't stop thinking about him! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - They always say that a problem shared is a problem halved but in this case just writing it down will help. I am newly married mother of two young children and been with my partner for 7 years. My husband is a wonderful man, gets on with all my famil...

He's a selfish kind of lover in bed. I told him this and he said he'd try harder. But now nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - me and my bf were talking about how we enjoyed the sex we had. He said everything was fine and he couldn't think of anything he'd perfer me to do. I told him as nicely as I could that he was selfish when it came to doing me. Which it ture, after he ...

Ive fallen for my ex's sister-in-law! What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a dilema, my girlfriend has recently broken up with me and i am just starting to get over her. But i kept in contact with her sister in law, she has been a rock to me we have always got on great and she has confided personal things ...

I feel like I'm 2nd best... I barely ever get hugs or kisses unless he wants sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hey all, I have a slight proble concerning the guy I am with at the moment. I am 18, he is 28. But its not the age gap thats the problem. I have been seeing him for 2 months, he is a very nice person, genuine, caring, he has a good job, nice hou...

Is he being disrespectful or am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - i've always had a problem trusting my live-in bf of about a year. he has alot of old girlfriends from college which doesn't bother me-but it does bother me that he tries to make new girlfriends.he set up a lunch with a girl claiming it was business ...

Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost ...

I never see my best friend - she's always at this farm doing drugs and getting laid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - My best friends got no respect for herself. She spends most of her time over this farm near her house. Her brother and his mates and loads of other blokes get drugged up over there. She thinks they're all so cool but they're not and i dont think its ...

He is never the one to initiate sex, so I stopped doing it for two weeks - he still hasn't made an effort! I feel totally unattractive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years, things are good although he is stressed at work. My problem is that he hardly ever initiates sex, I've been happy to initiate in the past but its starting to annoy me. I tried to ignore a...

My husband is a good guy, but I feel the wrong one for me. I hate the thought of staying with him AND leaving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for ten years. I married the wrong guy; my husband is a good person, he just isn't the one for me. I am a people person, and he is a 'person' person. He only seems to need me, and isn't interested in making friends or having ...

We're good mates but she refuses lifts to work...and she accepts them from people she despises!! Do I ask her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Why would this be happening.? I work in a factory that works very odd shift hours. There's this girl i work with who lives in the same town as me. We're good mates and get along great together. Really good friends. Because of the unsociab...

My ex said he still loved me. I found out he's seeing two other girls! We got in a fight, now he says he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am obsessed with my ex. I really hope someone can help me here and give me some advice. I went out with my ex b/f for almost five years. We split up in November but never really split up properly as we were still seeing each other and i thought ...

After we split, he wanted to remain friends. Then I found out he's in a relationship w/ someone he'd been seeing since before our split!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A month ago, my boyfriend of 4 years wanted to split up. I agreed it was the best thing as I didn't want a future with him. We both said that we'd always be friends but then he started to ignore me and when we did talk was extremely nasty. Instic...

I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...

He sometimes makes me cringe when he speaks, and he's in debt... This all makes me feel like a snob... Am I making yet another dating mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am a 42 year old woman, divorced for 7 years and have 2 adolescent children. I have a PhD and a professional job. I enjoy the arts and theatre and I like to mix in intelligent company. I look a lot younger than my years partly due to good genes ...

Are we ever going to have a real relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we became friends who sleep with each other. He made it clear we couldnt become anything more so, I went off with this other guy for a month. when this ended he was there for me and I started seeing him again. he said ...

Worried that my boyfriend may be going off me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone Sorry if i drone on in this but i really want some help please My bf and i have been together just over 6 months He is my first ever bf and im in my early 20's We used to be long distance as he was away with work a lot but now ...

I love him but I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hi, this is kind of embarassing. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and he hasnt introduced me to any of his friends (he says he hardly sees them because he spends all his free time with me, which could be true). He also never includes ...

I blew it with my fiancee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Me and my fiance had a great relationship. Then i said some things I shouldn't have. We havn't spoken in a month. She has a new man. She wont take my phone calls,but she wont tell me whats goin on cause she still loves me. What do I do? ...

My boyfriend is trying to change who I am and control what I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hi to everyone out there reading this. My question has to do with being in love with my bf but not willing to change who I am.To make myself a little more clearly I will tell you a little more about my problem. I been living for almost 11 months ...

I think he's gotten too close to his female friend. But am I looking too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - me and my b/f have been together for almost 4 years everything was perfect until about 6 months ago. i suffer from depression and he was unsure how to handle the situation and he turned to a close friend who happens to be of the opposite sex. now ...

I was prepared for no more conact from her after our split, but she's emailing me! Why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - A few months ago I just got out of a 2 year relationship. My ex and I spent some time in limbo, but then she decided that and space was necessary, so was did not speak for over 20 days. After the 20 day mark, I finally contacted my ex and asked her ...

Is he truly genuine or am I just kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I've been in this kind of relationship for nearly a year now. Me and this guy started out as just friends who slept with eachother but in the last month- its got more different on his behalf because I tried to end it but, he managed to get back in. ...

Is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend in the last 3 months has stopped e-mailing me regularly, using the excuse that he's in a remote area with no signal or his e-mail expired---10 days to have it validated,and he doesn't seem to want to answer much of what I ask, what ...

My girlfriend can be very overbearing... anyone have tips how to deal with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - Hello. I am very confused as what to do with the relationship that I am in. I love my Girlfriend very much, and she can be a complete doll. We are both very self-aware, intelligent people. We both do many things right, we cook for each other, do ...

He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...

Cross gender friendships...it's okay for her but not me?? Is that fair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I have recently found out that my girlfriend has said, 'she would not have gone out with me' if 'i'd have had girls as friends or a girlfriend before i met her'. She has said she wouldn't have liked it if i'd have had girl friends or a girlfriend, ...

He told all our friends in front of me, that sex with me was not 'hot' at all. I'm so turned off him,as a result..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for over two years. We don't live together. We were at a friend's house the other day and there was a bit of an argument between myself and my other half. He wasn't being particularly nice and even told me to p*** off...

She treated me badly and we split...but I want her back-but know I should forget her! How do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - How can I move on with my life and forget her? She did everything opposite one knows as love, and what you expect from your lover. She treated me bad, swear at me, never showed she cared about me and my life, and never help me when I needed h...

My friend's on/off again bf got married and she found out while pregnant w/ his child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - my friend has a child with a man she has been dating on and off for years. they are still in an on and iff relationship and she just found out that the man married another woman he's known (or maybe been in a relationship with) for even longer. my ...

How do I get over my insecurity issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I need a lil help with my insecurity problem My bf is real nice to me and at the mo i see him quite bit (we used to be long distance) I do tend to over worry tho If he doesnt use a sweet word in a text like babes i begin to...

My parents emotionally blackmail me when I bring up moving out. Now people are calling me a "mommy's boy!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - Hello, need some wide spread opinions here. I'm male, and 23yrs, living with my folks, I have 3 older sisters who have married and moved out. Our folks refuse the concept of moving out of the house, saying why move out and pay rent when you ca...

He changed his mind about liking me overnight - and after I started to like him back! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - there was this guy that seemed to be really interested in me doing all the right things then one day something changed it was like overnight he changed his mind (of course after i started to care about him). it was like he didnt even care and seemed ...

Two of my closest friends hooked up with my ex... multiple times!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I just got the biggest shock of perhaps my entire life tonight. Two of my closest friends on the planet hooked up with my ex-girlfriend, several times over the past year. I knew that this girl had issues, but I still loved her, and even though I ...

My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...

My friend asked the guy I like out and my ex's friend asked me out! I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - the guy i love said he kind of liked me and then said if he got to know me a little better he could start to love me and i was really happy. then he asked me how i want him to get to know me right after he said that. i thought in my head it sounds ...

My dad said no dating until I've moved out of their house - but I have a bf! Do I tell him, as he may become violent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My concern is about my parents. They are very protective at least my dad about a bf. He says i'm not allowed one until out of the house. I have been going out with this guy for 4 months now and am scared they will see us one time. I want to tell ...

She told her ex that I was a gentleman like *him* and she loves Subway like she loves *him*! I think she still feels for him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (?) - i went out on this date with this girl i really really like. she really enjoyed it etc. she even text me later thanking me for it. basically my mate her ex was helpin me get with her. he was askin her how our date was etc. and she said stuff li...

I like this girl and she knows, but she steers clear of me and avoids meeting up together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I have this problem with a girl a fw years younger than me. shes my friend's little sisters friend. i dont know this girl, except for that iv seen her around school and that shes my friends sis's friend. shes absolutely gorgeous. she knows that i l...

Keep ending up with men who put their ex-wives first!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Twelve years ago I was in Love with whom I thought was the love of my life. He was not ready for a commitment, and I dedcided to move on with my broken Heart. I had other relationship's, but I had come to accept that I would not ever fall in ...

Can we raise a child together while we live in separate homes? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - i really want this to work but how will it work when i know deep down that i cant trust him he seams to think i should get over it but it hard when you have been lied to. we have a child together we live in different houses a 40 minute drive he ...

She flirts in chat and on texts and takes stuff from me...is it time to call it a day??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Lately (my now ex fiance)was calling me by a different name several times daily. I since found she`s yet again been flirting in chatrooms and also now by text.When asked about it, she automatically turned on me, and as usual got angry and started ...

My gf doesn't want to talk much to me and I like contacting her at least 2 times per day. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - ok, so me and my girlfriend are back together, thanks to all those who answered. the idea of a break instead of a break up worked out better for her. but now i have another problem. this has been going on for about 3 weeks. she never wants to talk ...

He accused me of flirting online when I did no such thing! Is he trying to find an excuse to bail?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - i am very confused about my current relationship. my partner of 3 years has become very distant and more secretive over the last few months,today he asked me if i still wanted him, i was pretty shocked by this as i havent given him any reason to ...

Why is she acting normal in person, but blocks me from talking to her online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - I've been attracted to a girl at my school for a little while. Last semester, her and I talked a lot online, and they were fun conversations (a couple of which lasted over 2 hours, and it was nonstop back and forth between the two of us...). In ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

How do I tell him I love him - I don't even know if he's seeing anyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - how do you tell a guy you like them you know its love as you cant get him out of your head and well your always thinking of him and what to be with him but he is older than you and well your not sure whether he is seeing someone please help me i ...

I'm scared for my friend who has casual sex with any age guy who asks her. She's only 15!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - hi i have a problem its my friend she is well seeing this guy who is 28 years old and engaged and well she knows this and she is only 15 yrs old and shes having sex with him and many others ever since she turned 15 she has being having sex with who ...

In order to support my kids, I have to work out of town. They hate me for this and only email when they need money. I'm hurting so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - im far away from my 2 kids, i love them dearly but i got no choice to be far from them, i have to work to support them for what they needs. the problem is they are now growing from my parents, and they hated me being far from them they dont even ...