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writes:I've been in this kind of relationship for nearly a year now. Me and this guy started out as just friends who slept with eachother but in the last month- its got more different on his behalf because I tried to end it but, he managed to get back in. He has done exactly what I asked and seems genuinely truthful. He says we could be together in some ways but not others, and constantly says he's single. But, his reactions towards me if I went with another guy suggest he does feel the same as me but is scared. Does he feel the same as me? or am I just deluding myself that he feels the same as me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (31 January 2007):
He could be afraid of commitment. He need reasureance. Or he might just be saying anything to keep you in his bed. You need to tell him, you want a relationship (that he admits to being in) and he stops saying hes single. If he says no, then just tell him your through. Otherwise he will feed you loadsa crap to keep you happy. Just tell him your through and dont let talk his way back in. otherwise he might tell you he wants a relationship and he doesnt, which means he might cheat on you.Go out and meet someone who actually wants you, not just what you can give them.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (31 January 2007):
 It sounds to me as if he wants to get things back the way they used to be with you both. You have both slept together and I'd say he has feelings for you. I think he'd look out for you because he's fond of you, maybe even more than he'd like to be but at the end of the day he's telling you he still wants to be single. "You can be together in some ways but not in others." Could this mean as friends but not as lovers?
Be his friend for now, no more sleeping together and now more kissing and see how things pan out. You'll get your answer from him soon enough.
Eve
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