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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm deeply in love... but also deeply in debt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - I'm in love deeply with a woman who lives 60 miles away with 2 kids by 2 different dads. The distance isn't a problem in normal circumstances, but I have a big debt of around 70k that I need to pay off £150 per week bare minimum and that's not ...

Why is he keeping this female he calls a secret from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - every time my boyfriend received a call or text message from a female, he would tell me, but this one girl would call and text him and he never told me about her. he would even text her while texting me but never mentioned her. he says he doesnt ...

My BF told me to move on because his parents won't approve of our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - hi everyone, im 23 years and in college. i started dating with my boyfriend about an year ago. i ve a 2 yr old son from my ex. my boyfriend was the one always after me. at first, i didnt take him that seriously. but he just wouldnt let it go. he a...

My friends said he liked me, then I told them his name. They say he's like that w/ everyone. Are they being truthful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - So I told a couple of my girl friends what's been going between me and a guy for the past couple of weeks and they automatically said that the guy must like me, but the second I told them who it was, they instantly told me that he couldn't like me ...

I tell my best friend who I like, then she goes and flirts w/ them in front of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - hello please will lots of people answrr as i would like a range of ideas please :(...... i dont no what to do, i tell my best friend i like some lads and she goes and flirts with them infront of me she's alot prettier than me and i have low self of ...

My bf is way, way too sensitive about everything!!! What can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I need advice on how to deal with an over sensitive boyfriend... I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now but I dont know how long it will last. I never thought I would be complaining about a guy being sensitive but he really is a big ba...

I feel she thinks I'm getting boring - what can I do to make me seem fresh?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 7months we are very clsoe and what youd call a serious relationship, i feel that what i say and do doesnt have the same effect on her as it once used to, i dont really feel like i amaze her as much as she used ...

My older friend just got engaged to his gf - now I'm distraught and don't know how to act around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - hi i am 17 years old i am in love with a older guy he is 30 and a really good friend of mine.We get on really well and he is always there for me and ready to make me laugh when i am down.i know we would be perfect together but there is one problem i ...

How can I stop myself from being so shy? I lack social skill and confidence. And what could I say to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 15 years old and want a girlfriend but I lack the social skills and confidence to talk to people. How can I stop myself from being so shy? And what sort of things should i say to interest girls? Cheers, Jersey...

I have OCD b/c of my ex - I feel I may push myself away from guys b/c of my problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - This might sound a little confusing but keep in mind i was never like this before one of my ex's. I obsess over little things and have unwanted thoughts. I met this guy i started talking to and i noticed the dumbest thing of all that i have no prob. ...

We split b/c she said something didn't feel "right." Now we have a confusing relationship. Should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - I split up with my girlfriend of about three months about a month or so ago... We are both at uni together and would see each other about 2/3 times a week on average. When we were together it'd be fine, and we'd get on really well, good sex etc. ...

After proposing, she started ignoring me so I broke it off. I want her back but she refuses! I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - I need some advice from a womans point of view I met this woman almost 2 years ago, the first year we became very good friends. After the first year we became very close and fell deeply in love. and for the past year everything was perfect. ...

He said he was single and childless, but he's married w/ a daughter! How can I trust him again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - Do we have a future. My partner and I have been together for a year, he has lied constantly throughout his relationship, initially saying he was single and childless, as it turns out he is married with a 20 month old daughter. He told me in March ...

She said she wants to meet w/ her ex and I went through the roof! I feel cheated and deceived.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (M) - Am I right to be concerned? We have been engaged for 2 years, lived together for nearly 3 years, and have known each other for several years before we started our relationship. I was previously involved in a 23 year relationship that ended with ...

I said I didn't love him when I was depressed, but I do and told him I didn't mean it. Since, our relationship has been very rocky.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyf of 4 years, just over 3 weeks ago, as he said he thinks we should split up. We have had some problems in the past. I suffered depression in the past and told him I didn't love him. I didn't mean it as my depression had take...

My bf of 5 months and I get into arguments. Is it really my doing or is he being insensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I am dating this guy whom I love alot. Ive only been dating him 5 months and we are already fighting. I honestly think its me who is starting all the arguments. Maybe its because of my insecurities of my last relationship thats making me scared that ...

My bf still visits his old in-laws! I'm not happy about it. Should I tell him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my b.f for 3 1/2 years. He was previously married for 20years and he still visits his ex in laws etc. Im not to happy about this should i tell him to stop seeing them or should i have to put up with it as he has known them for such ...

I feel he thinks sex is a chore... And when we try to talk about it we end up fighting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I am 45 and my partner is 28. He says he loves me and our age does not bother him. But he is not very compassionate and when I am upset he does not try to make me feel better. Our sex live is not what I want it to be. We may only have sex once a ...

My bf promised to break it off with his "geisha," but hasn't yet. How long should I wait for him to do so?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - My boy promised to break it up with another girl. she's kind of like his "geisha." It's very painful to me, but we have a long-standing relationship and my heart is his. I can't contemplate another man without feeling like a cheater myself. How lo...

My ex says he still cares for me and would date me, but says I could do better and doesn't want me to get hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - When a guy tells you that he thinks i can do better then him and that he thinks he's not the one for me? I think my ex has really low esteem. When him and i were dating i always made it known to him that i thought he was the most sexist man in th...

He doesn't know if he wants to marry me now. Am I wrong in pushing him for an answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I have written before about nagging so much to my boyfriend that i pushed him away, we are trying to get things back to the way they were before but i still feel really down. I cant help thinking about the future! A few months ago my ...

He's lied about seeing other girls - now I can't stop going through his computer and phone...b/c I've found things!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for almost two yrs, we get on really well all of the time. Accept that i don't think i trust him. We met in the internet, i knew that he spoke to a lot of girls who were just, friends, i accepted that. I asked him ...

My mother criticizes me about almost everything - including my relationship status. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am having trouble with my mother and have done for some time. A lot of the time she really gets me down. I have lived away before but circumstances have brought me back home for now. She is always pressuring me to get with a gu...

I saw him pleasing himself... Wht does it mean!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - Recently I accidently saw my boyfriend masturbating. I thought we had a healthy sex life. Why does he need to do this? Also I saw naked pictures of him on his phone what does all this mean...

He asks me to spend the night, but I usually say no. Then he gets angry! What should I say or do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - here it goes....my boyfriend and i have been together for five months....he lives at home right now and he always asks me to spend the night...i have a couple times but for the most part i usually say maybe not tonight.....i guess im just scared for ...

I feel so guilt, but I can't stop cheating! I need opinions so I can realize how selfish I'm being.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I'm a young mom married to an older guy and i have cheated!! I met this guy recently and we both liked each other. He satisfies me not just sexually but emotionally too and i think that's what i am craving for. We are very intimate now and i know ...

I'm only dating him to piss of his ex gf and get back at her. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

10 January 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and I have recently gotten myself a boyfriend and he is 16. Lately I've noticed that maybe my feelings for him aren't there completely for him. I mean I've liked him before and everything was great but I feel it deep in my heart that I'm just ...