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writes:yesterday was valentines, my boyfriend and i started the day as usual in a loving way, he dropped me at work and i left my cell phone with him, sometime during the day i received a valentine msg from a friend who i know from a long time which said" coz i love you too much i just had to send you a valentine msg, sorry can't spend the day with you. love you lots". i don't know why he sent me such a msg, he is a friend to an exboyfriend and yes we are good friends but his msg has gotten me in so much trouble.He doesn't believe me when i say that he is just a friend. right now my boyfriend is behaving funny, he let me walk to work, didn't come to pick me up nor for lunch, why is he still so worked up with something that i have explained and that there is nothing going on between us. i haven't spoken to the msg sender yet, should i speak to him? help please on how i should deal with this thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): I once sent a message to a friend and discovered i had just sent it to my ex!!! Of course it gave him all the wrong idea and he still thinks it was meant for him.You need to have a word with the person who sent it and ask them what it was all about. I'm sorry to hear your bf is behaving this way. I'm also sorry to hear that you have to justifiy yourself to him in such a way. In this day and age the modern ways of communication are not always the best. I think you need to sit him down, have a chat and explain to him once and for all that this is not your fault.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (15 February 2007):
This is one problem with the current technology -- all kinds of misunderstandings can arise! Sounds like the man who called was feeling a little lonely on Valentine's Day, and remembered you as a very nice person and wanted to let you know this, but went a little overboard on his language! We are all allowed to have friends, and there's love and there's LOVE. I think you need to try again to get this across to your boyfriend. Maybe he could even meetyour friend with you and help despell his jealousy. I hope he will get over this soon! Perhaps he is just feeling insecure in general, and you need to show him extra love and affection.
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