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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs.six months ago we had a baby boy, it seems to me our sex life has gone from almost every day to almost every week. he has always watched porno's (dvds/vhs) but it never bothered me as much then than it does now. if i was to leave for a little while, i come back i already look to see if he has watched a porno, and sure enough the lotion is moved, the t.volume is on low and worst of is his "little men" on a dirty shirt in the hamper. but when i will make the iniciative to steam things up or throw the hint out there that i want him he always say's something like " i pick the wrong time" " he is tired" or will just say " ok later" i am not conceited, but my body went back to the same as before i got prego, i always try to spice things up like with laugrei, the stockings and all! i am asking does he rather watch porn than to have sex with me? is there something wrong down there with me??? does he fantasies about being with other woman?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): I dont think its got anything to do with you hun.... simply the fact hes got lazy and and a whack off in front of the screen is easier than having to keep you happy as well as him. Tell him exactly how you feel, and what this is doing to you and that you dont mind him looking at porn, but when it comes between your sex life then its totally wrong and he needs to make an effort.
I know how you feel this is happening to me right now... he cant see the big deal and always has a reason why sex isnt so important anymore... They are done whacking off why do they need us ? Need to tell them straight and warn them that unless they change it and become more active and stop being so damn lazy taking the easy option they will lose us!
Take care hope he listens, most men are in denial when it comes to porn. A wake up call is whats needed.
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