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We're great friends, but his ex and him are very close. What's going on here?

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Question - (15 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2007)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

We love each other very much,we are great friends even.He lives 2 houses from his ex-girlfriend. They are very close friends. they are sometimes together at his house at night or in the street at night. he walks here home at night. she's free to talk to him about anything ,even problems with her boyfriend.

1. Is he going to cheat on me with her?

2. Is he telling her about our relationship?

3. How big is the risk that I am taking?

4. Are we better friends than they are?

5. Is there something wrong with this picture?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (16 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntI agree with Kenny, I do think your boyfriend miught be overdoing it, however they do live awfully close together. I sort of understand how if they ended things on fairly good terms, they would still see each other.

If you can, could you maybe start to befriend her? If you're friends with the ex, it could make things easier on you. If you can't stand her, I'd just sit down with your boyfriend and tell him that you don't mind that they hang out sometimes, but they do it ALOT and it's weird for you.

xxIndia

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (15 February 2007):

kenny agony auntWhile i agree that when a relationship ends it is good to both end on good terms and maybe still be friends, like maybe saying hello if you see them in the supermarket, or filling your car up with petrol or something.

However in this case it does seem that they are spending a little bit to much time together, what with her going to his house at night.

I would sit your boyfriend down and say you are uncomfortable with his relationship with his ex, let him know you are deeply upset by this and take it from there.

Good luck x

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