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*anda_Vcheer
writes:Okay, so I have been dating this guy for one year. I have known that I loved him for a long time and we have even kind of thought about marriage in the future, but for the past month we are fighting on and off and on and off. At first I thought it was just me being moody but then I realized the stuff that I used to think were cute in a stupid-he-looks-dumb-kinda way, now really really annoy me. I know I love him so much and I never want to hurt him but I kind of feel like I don't like him anymore(if that makes since?). Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 February 2007):
 Sometimes people lose interest. Sometimes relationships get old. Looks like this one is past it's prime. You're young and you don't have to commit to anyone - certainly not for the rest of your life! This is the time in your life to be dating, experiencing and having fun as a single girl. When you do date, you'll learn more and more about what you do and don't want in a future partner. In every relationship, you'll learn and grown more within yourself.
It seems like the learning and growing offered to you by this young man is complete and it's time for you to move on and try being single again. Sometimes you just lose interest, and that's okay. Totally, totally okay. Just be nice and break it to him that you're checked out of the relationship and you want to try being on your own for awhile.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, tiki  +, writes (15 February 2007):
remember that you are very young and that you have the rest of your life to live!
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