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writes:hello, happy valentine everybody...Well I'll go straight to the prob...there's a guy with me at work but he's in a different dept so I don't see him much; he's sooooo great we've recently been getting close...ast week we went out it was our 1st time to ever meet outside work and we went out alone, it was great he talked about his past relationship, and he said am like his mother cartoonish and sweet...anyways things I think are going great, however I have the feeling that he has an inside fear of letting himself get close. I think it could be that his past relationship was 4 years ago and he's still friends with this girl..but I feel this way cos he'd call and say he's gonna pass by when he's free then he doesnt..then someother times he passes by and it's all fine, but then why would he say he'd pass by from the 1st place if he's not planning to pass by..anyways I dont want to confuse u...but I kinda had high hopes that he would call or want to see me yesterday or at least send a msg for the valentine's day...I mean it would ve been a good chance for him to show if he's got feelings for me...it's quite obvious that he's got feelings for me and it's obvious that I have feelings for him too, and everybody around us has noticed! so I thought yesterday was a good chance for him to tell me his feelings, but he didnt...do u think he's not yet ready?! I mean there'r a lot of signs that he's getting close to me, and I dont want to be pushy, cos right now I think we'r on the same level...and I think he's a great guy, he's very decent, gentle and sweet :) things are going on very slow thou...but I have an inner feeling that if things go very slow like this we might just grow far away not closer...so what do u advise me to do??am sry that my letter is long :$thnx in advance :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx a lot for ur answers...he's called me after the valentine's day but my mob was off an 2day we chatted for a while online...I dont think I can go straight n tell him how I feel cos am too shy :$ but I'll wait for the right moment tho and I'll try to hint out...thnx a lot thou u've been of a gr8 help! :)
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reader, kenny  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 Hey im in a similar situation with this girl, we flirt all the time and have been for months now, and nobody will make a move.
I would say take the bull by the horns and tell this guy how you feel, its obvious you both like each other. I reckon he is either shy or scared. Go on put him out of his misery and ask him, i bet he will say yes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Things are going slow...Hey you only live life once so ask him what he realy feels for you, or your just going to live in the corner of his life forever. Besides mabey he just wants to hear somthing from you first. Its not good to hide stuff from the ones you like or love so why start a relationship by hidding stuff. Be open with him about it and you will find what your looking for
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