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writes:It will be almost 2 years for my boyfriend and I in March. I love him dearly, but lately he hasn't been treating me differently. I do admit that when he began his new job, I was a bit leary of this woman that kept wanting him to work with her, but that has been done and passed. Lately when I have something to ask him, he causes an argument out of it. Sometimes I don't even know what we're fighting about. And then when we do fight, it's ALWAYS my fault and the same ole s**t. I don't know what his problem is sometimes. I know I have an attitude problem, but I didn't fight with him for about 3 weeks, which is good for me, and he starts fighting with me again. Sometimes it's about this chick that he works with, even when I don't bring her up, he does. He tells me that he don't give a f**k, which really hurts my feelings. When he makes me cry because of this, he makes fun of me. Is there clues here to say that he don't really care for me so much anymore? He says that he hates the fights, but starts them himself. I can't stop that. He starts talking crappy to me, of course I'm not going to be nice to talk like that. Am I supposed to just act like I don't care anymore or do something about how he treats me? I did get help before from a specialist, which helps ME not get mad as much, but I can't help it when he starts talking to me the way he does sometimes. Someone please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, cseame  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 Your boyfriend is probaly just having a lot of problems at work...talk to him and try to ease him up as possible and talk about it...you can maybe take him to the specialist and discuss it together...just calm him
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