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Archived questions from: March, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex contacts me during parts of the week, but am I just her back-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6801 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - Hey guys, Thanks for taking the time to answer all of my questions, you've all been hugely helpful. Anyway, here's another: I'm trying now my hardest to not contact my ex girlfriend, but here's my problem and it's actually a little annoying ...

Is my conern for her justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - I am wondering if I should be concerned about this. The other night I called my girlfriend and she was drunk. I talked to her and she happened to be very horny and was discussing what she wanted to do with me sexually. anyways we talked for a few ...

I called a break and now I want him back, how do I go about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

31 March 2006 (F) - I got this problem. I dated this guy for almost 5 years and recently i thought i had feelings for another guy so, we took a break. But it turns out i didn't have feelings for that other guy it was the same guy all along. I love him more then ...

We got drunk, made out, fooled around... And now she's gone mentalist with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

31 March 2006 (M) - Last Friday night whilst I was out I bumped into this girl that I work with and I really like. We had a few drinks and she ended up staying at my place. We fooled around a bit but nothing serious because she was really drunk. When she left the nex...

I am so insecure because he's fibbing about his drug use!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just been through a rough patch. It seems as though he doesn't know how to bring up stuff with me thus being not so open. One thing after another new things have been bought up. I just found out that he has the ocassion...

He keeps promising he isn't going to lie and every time he breaks that promise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a little problem, could you pease help me with it if you can? I'm almost 16 and in a relationship with a guy who I really love. like I say, I really love him, but theres just one problem... recently, I've found out that he's li...

Where's the borderline for possesive behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is on the borderline of being possessive. I know its partly because he's putting in so much that he's got a lot to loose, but how do you know if someone crosses the line to being obsessive and controlling? and if they cross over, is it ...

My abusive alcoholic partner has destroyed me now I'm confused over my love for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - I have just recently got back together with the man that for four years after we split up I thought was the love of my life. We were together after he left his fiancee to be with me after we started an affair and I thought it was the real thing. ...

My boyfriend has started taking drugs! What do I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

30 March 2006 (F) - what do you do if your boyfriend is started to drink and do pot for the very first time since you have been going out with him? ...

We planned our lives together and now he's acting so cold, what's going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and have lived with him for a year. We had been talking about getting married, and following each other wherever we need to go for grad school. Recently he broke up with me, saying that he still loves me, ...

I don't know how to help him if he's saying such harsh words towards me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6803 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - My fiancee's mother recently passed away. I realize the impact that losing someone has on a person. I haven't lost my parents, but I lost two brothers to suicide. I expect the process of greiving and that he needs to go through all these emotions in ...

A week into dating my ex's best friend and already having SERIOUS doubts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

29 March 2006 (?) - about a month ago i split from my boyfriend of 8 months. It was a tough time becuase he was the one that ended it and never really gave me a reason for the split. Anyway I vowed to stay single and concentrate on my studies-1 month down the line an...

I'm almost ready to come out as bi, but I'm still married, any advice!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - hi there, I am 32 married with 2 kids, but I have a VERY big problem..I'm fairly new to the area we live and have struck up several friendships with new woman but with one this is very different, I have fallen in love with her in a BIG way..This ...

His night time habits are hurting me and I feel used, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - hi My partner and I are going through a really bad patch and arguing frequently about sexual problems. The main problem is my partner has nocturnal emissions every night and i feel hurt the next day, we argue and then it starts again. He also c...

He shouted at me, didn't apologize, we ended it and now I think he fell out of love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6801 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Heartbroken I have just broken up with my boyfriend of one year. We have had our ups and downs this last while and we seem to spend less and less time together, but the end was for me when I went to lift him and his friend at the local bar where ...

I think he has lied about his ex and him being together when we were. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Hi, feeling a bit down and confused at the mo. I've been seeing my boyfriend now for 6 months and i guess we've actually formally been together for about 3, we were sort of just seeing eachother before then. around christmas time i found ...

He had adult material and now I feel really insecure about us. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - This is really embarrassing but it is causing me a lot of grief and affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. I am in a serious relationship with a really decent guy and we have spoken about moving in together once we have enough savings. Our ...

His family is abusive towards me and he don't do anything about it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - I have been living with my fiance (of 1 yr only) for the past 4 years. Same age but I was married with 2 children. His family does not accept me, verbally and physically abused me already. He has done nothing. I am not allowed to any functions etc. ...

I feel torn between moving on or staying put, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - hey. Have been goin out with my boyfriend the past 2 and a half years. Lately i have been having feelings for another male. I sometimes think i need to be single for a while but I am afraid my boyfriend will move on and meet someone and I will reg...

We split briefly-he slept with his ex and now she's pregnant and he's the father! Do I stick around and support him or just leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6799 days ago

29 March 2006 (F) - Should I stay or go? I need someone outside my relationship to help me. My fiance and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, however, we split briefly at the beginning of last year. During this time he slept with his ex, I'm not mad about that - w...

My boyfriend is really childish and isn't changing. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of (9)nine years is still acting childish and it's a big keep back in our relationship i really do love him but it's really fustrating.now i'm meeting other people that i'm attracted to and i have feelings for one. what should i do ...

My boyfriend likes to aggrevate me about my breasts, why does he do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of almost 2 yrs. will make jokes about my breasts. saying they are little and all, but then when I try to ignore it he will make another joke, then it bothers me and he will apologize and say he is just joking and that my breasts are ...

She admitted she has kissed other guys, what am I to do about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6794 days ago

28 March 2006 (M) - I went out with my girlfriend the other night and we got chatting to a couple of guys whilst we were out, we ended up going to a club with them and I saw one of the guys come out of the toilet walk up to my gf and kiss her. I hit the guy a few times ...

Trust is an issue because he's lied to me several times. How do we build the trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - my bf and i been together for 2 years on a long distance relationship. Trust had always been an issue. He had lied to me in several times and it has hurted me a lot; but I've been wanted to give it a try 'cause i love him. Now, he lives closer to ...

He don't want a girlfriend, then why does he want to touch me and treat me like one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - hey guys. My ex and i broke up about 2 months ago. His little bro got sent 2 juvie and a few other things happened that wasn't so great, but he said he was too stressed to think about anything and didnt want a gf for a while. We're both 17 n had ...

He was so apologetic, but now he hasn't even called me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - Ok i wrote in yesterday about my boyfriend always putting his friends before me and our plans. now i have another problem.we spoke on the phone last night (he rang me by the way, i never gave in) and he was so appologetic and swearing he will never ...

My boyfriend is letting his parents control his life and he "knows" it's wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - A man i want to marry is from a very cultural family. He has to obey his parents. We both want to get married however his parents are against it, they want him to marry a cousin. However he wants to marry me. He has been fighting for me for 5 months ...

I have two problems, in need of advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - I have two major problems. I have been with my boyfriend for a month, and recently, some things happened, and he's got a lot of things going on in his head. He's been making excuses not to see me now. Is this normal? Is it just because he needs...

Why is my gf so off with me now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years, we are both 19, we were getting on fine until my date came for me to go in the army we agreed to stay together because we loved each other. When i had been away a month she started ...

My bf's secret drinking has made me feel betrayed!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - Recently i found out that my boyfriend has been secretly drinking alcohol behind my back. When confronted he still keep denying and even try to convince me that he didnt do it. Im just so upset and disappointed that he can lie perfectly well that i ...

I keep misunderstanding my bf's expressions and voice tones..it bugs the hell out of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - i keep having misunderstandings about my bf. i take what he says seriously because i care but i'm finding it really hard to read his tone/expression. i don't know if he is truly upset about something or if he's just saying to let me know. his tone ...

Would now be a bad time to ask her to marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

28 March 2006 (M) - my girlfriend has been moved out for about 2 months and we still talk and go out for dinner, hold hands kiss, say we love each other and all those things. yet at times she says she cant see us being together to move back in at the moment. she said ...

I don't love him as much as he loves me... How do know if it's not right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

28 March 2006 (F) - How do you know if someone isn't right for you? I've been doubting the strength of my relationship for 2 of its 5 years. He is the sweetest, kindest, most genuine man you could meet, but I don't love him as much as he loves me and I don't think he's ...

We are no longer friends because she disapproves of my boyfriend. Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have written here before about starting a relationship with an age gap. I'm 18 (f) and my boyfriend is 32. I am happy in this relationship. One of my best friends has now stopped talking to me. She has never met my boyfriend, and she has let ...

This guy doesn't treat me so well and he's always making up excuses. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl This guy used to treat me like shit and we used to fall out all the time though we both fancy each other like mad. he was into mindgames which is why he treated me like this...but he changed about a year ago and started ...

My bf found out I lied about my past lovers and now he's upset..how can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i lied to my boyfriend about how many people i slept with before him and he can't seem to get over it, i've tried to say all that i could but he didnt even want me near him ... things are better now but it just doesnt feel the same between us. what ...

Could his attitude towards me be because of our age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - weve been together for 3 yrs,.i dont understand his attitude towards me sometimes he likes me sometimes he dont..his 45 yrs of age and im only 21,,but i do loved him,.but his always holding back,.because of our age gap.....

He keeps letting me down and going with his mates instead! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6804 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and up until lately things have been fantastic, the problem is he keeps letting me down with our plans for a night out with his mates. We make arrangements then as soon as he gets a sniff of the pub he ...

He lied to me alot to get me, he changed, but I think things are back to normal. Should I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I'm not sure I love the guy I am with (I'll call him H)... we have been together for almost a year now and have elaborate plans for our future together. The problem is I'm not sure I love H! You see, H is not the kind of guy that I would want to ...

My Ex was very emotionless, she didn't even cry about our breakup! Should I let her know what I think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and she showed very little emotion over it. She really isn't much of an emotional person, and I think it's something to do with her past. Her and her ex boyfriend suffered a miscarriage about 4 y...

I don't feel attracted to him physically, but he treats me well. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I met a guy on the train 2 years ago who is 26, i am 27. We get on great and i do feel very connected to him in a lot of important ways except sexualy. I do fancy him but one of the reasons we split was because i never wanted sex, i was fine whe...

I can't handle the breaking up/getting back together thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6795 days ago

27 March 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago my girlfriend told me she doesn't want to be in this relationship anymore .... now this is not the first time she's done this, any "discussion" we have had invlolved her being wrong generally ended up with her saying, "ok we're ...

My boyfriend has changed, and it's not for the better either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - i feel that hoping for a mircale to happen with our relationship. it feels are relationship is going from bad to worse. i knew before i entered into this relationship that long distance ones were hard. but i feel that the relationship as lost all...

He left, took the car, cancelled the direct debits and emptied our join bank accounts! Now he's back but his family HATE me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6797 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - my husband and i have been together 4 16years. we have 4 children and have been having problems 4 the last 2 yrs. we had major bust up about him keeping on phoning and receiving calls daily from another woman. this ended with him leaving our home ...

I never wanted them until they didn't want me... Am I afraid of something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6805 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend.I had a couple without a "title" Even though they have had asked me out i never wanted to be with them until they didnt want me anymore.Am i afraid to geet close or express myself !?...

Should I be concerned about his weird phone habits!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6802 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - I have a question. Okay, here's the situation. My boyfriend is pretty good, I'd say our relationship is pretty healthy, we respect each other and have separate interests and friends, encourage each other, etc. He cares for me when I don't feel wel...

I have a big problem with my boyfriend's sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6806 days ago

27 March 2006 (F) - hi,my name is katie. i have a problem with my boyfriend and his closness with his sister. in the past he has told her stuff about our personal realsionship i was mad and we got over it. she calls him all the time asking a bunch of noisey questions. ...

Should we break up? He seems to think we should..what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6797 days ago

26 March 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and three months. We have been living together for a little less than a year. Lately we have been having stupid fights and arguing. He recently told me that he is unhappy and not sure that he still ...

I work six days a week while my partner lays in bed. Am I being taken advantage of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

26 March 2006 (M) - I feel like I am being used, I work 6 days a week whilst my partner stays home. Sometimes she is still in bed when I get home from work. We do not sleep together anymore, she stays up all night watching television and smoking dope. I also do the s...

Sometimes my man is affectionate but other times i feel so unloved. Please help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

25 March 2006 (F) - My man can sometimes be very affectionate and loving and passionate so i know he is capable of it , but he dosent react to anything the way i think a man who is in love should, for example, when we split up i went with another guy and when i told ...