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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have ...

I'm turned on by a fantasy I'm sure my wife's interest in would be zero!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

31 May 2016 (M) - Hi All. I am a very happily married man and my sex life with my wife is fantastic. However, I am hugely turned on by the thought of a threesome between my wife and a shemale. I am almost certain that my wife's interest in this is pretty much zero. ...

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she ...

Should I tell how I feel, even though she is not gay and has a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - So i've really liked this girl for four years from college. I am certain she did had some feelings for me. However, She has a boyfriend, and ive just left college and dont think i will ever see her or speak to her again. I am not looking for ...

What can I do? My ex ghosted me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic. why no...

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work ...

She's engaged but my boyfriend checks out her facebook page every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My bf n I have been dating for about 4 yrs now. We r both college grads n about to start professional schools. We have a solid relationship but one thing has always bothered me. My bf either has a crush or really really likes one of his friends from ...

Sexual tension you could cut with a knife... But we're both married. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - So I have an issue at work that I need some help dealing with. There is this guy a few years older (married with kids) who has always on and off lightly flirted with me. I ignore him because I'm married as well. Over the past couple of months...

My husband made a joke about me taking our mutual friend's virginity for his birthday. Should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my husband are both in our early 30's and have been married for 10 years. We have a mutual friend who is about the same age as us both and is still a virgin. Recently my husband made a joke about me taking his virginity for hi...

I feel as if I am just the girl he made pregnant. Does he really love me? I feel as if I'm second best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and together have two babies. We have 2 kids each to previous partners. All up we have 6 kids whom we raise together. He was with his ex for about 5 years. They were not married but were...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

What should I do? Things don't feel right in our relationship. I still feel betrayed at times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are having a major problem and I come to you for help. We've been married almost 3 years, no children. He wanted to separate for a bit and so I agreed. I went to go stay at my dads. Out of hurt and anger I told him I would be filin...

He said I was 'the one' but I found out he has a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - my ex and I have been having a fling for a couple years, I had hopes and though it would lead us back together. he would say I love you but I don't want to settle just yet but when I do your the one. I always had the impression we were very clo...

I need help ending this affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - We both were friends from past 6yrs like since from our college days. We were close enough and one day conffessed him that I was having crush on him and so he confessed the same. Because of this we became more close and we used flirt with each ...

I thought there were mutual feelings but that the timing was off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Definitely needs some advice here, So my boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time now, (3+ years). While I do care for him, we are opposites and have been on and off. 2 years ago, I went on a trip with my school and met a guy (al...

I live with my boyfriend but so much want to be with another guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years, i live with my partner, but i am not happy have not been happy with him for a while. I have met this really nice guy who i have known for a while and i want to be with this new guy so much, but i dont know ...

He wont talk to me after a fight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I've been talking with this guy for months now, but lately I'm juSt having difficulty dealing with him. He was really caring, and acts nice and always tries to keep the conversation going. We had a fight a 2 weeks ago, and I hurt him with my ...

What should I do? Is it understandable that I'm hurt that my boyfriend wants to be friends with a woman he cheated with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Last night my phone was dead and I could not find my charger. So I asked my boyfriend if I could use his phone because I had to call my sister for something important. I'm not the type to snoop but I saw 3 calls in the call log from a woman my...

Met this guy and he has a Gf. What should I do? I am yet to tell me that I'm divorcing my husband.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - My husband I have agreed to divorce. We still live together because it's convenient but we treat each other as roommates and I will probably stay at our house for at least next three months. About two months ago I met a guy through mutual friends....

Have I saved myself a lot of grief between him and me? What is going on in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

15 May 2016 (M) - So long story short I started seeing this guy in September I wasn't used to gay/bi relationships then so was abit deflective. He ended up starting to see someone but he told me was casual we kept speaking and seeing one another but I got suspicious ...

I'm suspicious of the friendship my husband has with his female boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - Hello. I need advice in what to do. I am withy bf for 2 years.He was working in a place for 2 years and in that time he became friend with his female supervisor. A lady like 15 years older than him, they both speak the same mother language because ...

Am I over-reacting? Is this girl trying to cause trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3106 days ago

11 May 2016 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I are both in our 30's. We have been together a few years. There is one particular woman I have been having an issue with for a couple of years. I don't know their relationship, I suspect he cheated on me with her though he ...

I should go at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - So I really liked this guy, who at first liked me too, but who now has feelings for my best friend instead. My best friend isn't into him in that way because she has someone she already really likes but on my end it still kind of hurts and is weird...

Should I tell her I slept with our friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

10 May 2016 (M) - Hello my aunts! Im back again. You guys gave me great advice about how to handle my bad situation with my not so faithfull wife. I followed it and it worked out. The only downside is she kicked me out. which means less time with my babies before I ...

I need help to understand and untangle all that so upset me before we broke up, after 6 years together. Can anyone help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - I hope someone will be able to give me advice on this which is breaking my heart. I have been with my partner almost 6 years and he has left me. I came from a marriage of 20 years where i found my husband in bed with another woman, so to of got t...

He can't break her hold

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - Why can't a married man give up his long term mistress? Even when he has tried more than once to stop the affair due to guilt and fear of being caught? Why can he NOT let her go? Despite so many attempts? His mistress has told him she does n...

Is this one to keep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for 2, 2.5 years. We always get on very well in groups but don't really talk outside of seeing each other at gigs/parties. He had a girlfriend until about 6 months ago. She was lovely but he used to occasionally say ...

What do I tell my friend about her 'relationships' ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - My friend has just shocked me with what she has just said, she told me she is seeing 2 guys. They dont know about each other and they live miles from each other and have no friends in common and she's kept this quiet until now. No-one knew she...

I have two women after my love, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

8 May 2016 (M) - this is the story of the first woman who is after me Im 20 and she is in her thirties. I moved in with my cousin in September. Within a couple of months my cousins wife made a move on me when he was at work and her son was up stairs asleep i was ...

My ex acts like he's interested but he does not want to break up with his Girlfriend. Is he playing both of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - In my opinion, I am in a very unstable relationship with my ex boyfriend. As much as I love him and want to be with him, i think he's not being fair to me and being very sketchy. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me but he's putting ...

Does my fiance's female friend fancy him? Should I be concerned? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

4 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice please I feel awful. My boyfriend and I got engaged recently and I couldnt be happier about it, there is just one thing that is really getting me down and making ne question everything. He has a female school friend w...

Why would he be messaging his ex in the first place? And why ask her for pictures? If he misses her, is that a bad sign?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

4 May 2016 (F) - I found out and saw that my boyfriend was texting back and forth was his ex girlfriend. He asked her to send him a picture of her (not sexual just normal) and then he told her how gorgeous she was and that he missed her. I asked him about it and...

He swears there's nothing romantic going on. Should I believe him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

3 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm a single mom, I'm stuck in a rut. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. We've had some major ups and major downs. Lately though, it's just all downs. He's befriended a waitress at his local bar (he goes just about every day)...

Am I being a fool or should I see him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) - I met this guy about 5 years ago. He was the sweetest. Well for the first time ever I felt myself being in love. He was the man of my dreams and even though I had a boyfriend and a kid, we still managed to hit it off. He was my secret lover for ...

Why will a married man NOT leave his mistress, even when affair is in danger of being exposed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) - Why won't a married man give up his long time mistress EVEN when their affair is in danger of being exposed to the world and to his wife? For example: Some people in their work place are starting to become suspicious. But he still won't leave hi...