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writes:So long story short I started seeing this guy in September I wasn't used to gay/bi relationships then so was abit deflective. He ended up starting to see someone but he told me was casual we kept speaking and seeing one another but I got suspicious it was his BF he said no until I found out over wise. Now last few months I've been more comfortable and open with my feelings to him but when I asked him if I came out who would you chose me or new guy he said he don't know it's hard anyway we stopped talking for a few weeks and below is our messages what do people make of it MeI thought you weren't out like that, Do you know what... You and him are getting or are really serious so I'm gonna take myself out of the equation it's not fair on none of us, you're in love with Him and me being on your case making you stress Him in the unknown and me that has feelings for you and wants to see you all the time but can't. I don't really know how you feel for me and I am just a spur of the moment thing with meets with you. So might aswell save myself a lot of grief and hurt and just let you go Not saying let's not be friends cause I do think a lot of you and have said from beginning we'll still be friends no matter xxHimIt's only That knows - this is why wanna speak in person.MeRather do it by text cause if this is where it's heading don't want to cuddle kiss or sleep with you and be all confused about it all xHim I'm not having this convo nowHave to be laterMeOkay but yes or no is it about what I just saidHimYeah pissing me off a bitMe If it's pissing you off then leave it where I've just left it was trying to do it in a nice wayHim Can you talk on the phone later I actually don't know what to make of it all I was ready to end it with but now I don't know if that's what he wants I'm so confused can someone give me there opinion
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 May 2016):
 He is cheating on his boyfriend with you, even if things ended with the boyfriend and he got with you he would probably find another bit on the side. He sounds like a player to me. He does not want to answer the tough questions therefore he just ignores them and spits his dummy out like a child. I am sure you can do better than this.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 May 2016):
 Just cut him off already.
You know even if he DID drop the other guy for you, that he would find someone else on the side. He had been perfectly happy cheating on the dude with you and on you with the dude.
Block his number/block him elsewhere too and LET him go.
I think he is hoping he can "talk" his way out of this and THAT will only lead to you getting more hurt.
The thing is though - not related to this relationship. But BE honest about who you are and what you like. If you WANT to date a guy, then DATE A guy and be honest about it. Don't keep someone on the down-low, it's just not honest or fair.
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