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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

How do I stop other women trying to steal my good looking boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I work with my ex and I have a member of staff that flirts round him and it is making him attracted to her. She is the type of girl that knows how to play it i.e leave them wanting more -as in, she asked him-I know you from somewhere, and it has ...

Two brothers love me. One is bad one is good. I love them both but I am with the bad one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - What do you do when two brothers love you, one is the silent best friend from beginning of high school, and the other is the older bad boy brother who spoke up to share his feelings right away. This is really tough because, the bad boy brother ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

My boyfriend's lifelong friend is a gorgeous stripper. How can I be less jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hey there, I am in an interesting predicament. My bf and I have been together for 8 months, and we are very much in love. I am conflicted over his relationship with his life-long female friend. She is very attractive (and a stripper), and h...

Does my male best friend still have feelings for me even though he has a girlfriend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Right, I have had a male best friend for over 6 months now, but we both feel like it has been forever! in the first 2 months, we started flirting, texting 24/7, i got told he was a player by many people but i really liked him, so i just ignored ...

How can I just forget about the chemistry I have with my boyfriend's friend? Why is he telling me he wants me one minute and then saying its a joke the next minute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - hello again, another dilema in my life. Basically, my boyfriends friend and I have gotten rather close, started with banter saying how we are secretly together and just telling each other how sexy and hot we are all for a joke. Weeks went by, and ...

My friend flirts with my crush

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I am really conflicted over a situation I'm in. I regard myself as someone who's genuine and has a good moral compass. Recently I met someone in a professional sense that I developed a crush on over time. This chap is married with children. I ...

My FWB started liking another guy so I downplayed my feelings for her, now she seems to be falling for the other guy even more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - i have a sex partner we've been having sex maybe just over a month now.. but i feel like our sex has been going down a hill lately.. how do u spice things up? and.. i am falling for her but she told me she likes this other guy who she just m...

I know he truly wants us both!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - hello, I'm not sure what to do about a situation I've been involved with for two years and need other peoples advice! i met a man by accident two years ago. from the moment we started talking we couldn't leave each other alone. texts run into at ...

My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...

My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...

Why every girl my girlfriend is close to wants to be lesbian with her. Is it because of her breast size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everyone now here's my story for all of you readers. My girlfriend has a tendency to pretty much turn other women on we both think it's cause of her breast size but every single friend she had has one point tried getting in her pants and she ...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

First my BF lies about kissing the girl in the bikini, then he says he put the picture up for "revenge" from me, and he doesn't even like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for a bit over a year. We were not official for a while but always exclusive. We became best friends, even through our ups and downs and were alywas there for eachother. We had a really bad phase a few months ago, but recently ...

My girlfriend has gone away to college, I'm scared she will cheat with her guy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has just gone off to college and we are taking a small break since we will both be at college for some time. We still love each other but when she was leaving she was so excited to go to college that she didn't seem like she would miss ...

Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - Is my ex-fiance playing games or is he just too embarrassed to admit he screwed up? My ex left me a yr. ago after 7 yrs. together basically, for someone else although, they did not get together until after he ended it. He also, denies she was the ...

I need to choose between a guy who's intense and one who's easy going but without the strong connection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm 5 months out of a 6 year engagement and I moved to a new city to spend some time with myself and meet new men. I met one and have been dating him "B" for 3 months now, but he's been very intense, wanting to be exclusive and committed, can be ...

The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...

Can a man grow a backbone? Or should I move on? He believes others over me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - So I had met this guy a few times, and thought he was cute, so I asked my girlfriend about him and she said he was great, that they were just friends and so she gave him my number. So we get together, and right away, I could tell we are really hitt...

Have I made a huge mistake - allowed my BF to have sex with my BF???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 4yrs on and off again just cheated on me with my best friend last week. we have 2 kids and i think i want to try and work past this, but here is the issue, my friend has wanted a child for a long time now, so 3 weeks a go we mad a ...

Why is he pursuing me so relentlessly, despite my attitude? He has a partner already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am currently involved with a long distance relationship/friendship that's puzzling. This person claims they are "in a relationship", yet has been pursuing me relentlessly. I have received flowers, money, clothing, letters, cards and other gift...

He has A Girlfriend. Why doesn't he see what happened was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - I used to be in a sort of "friends with benefits" with a guy i know who lives miles away from me. We knew each other from school and got back in touch over Facebook. It lasted a while then we didn't see each other for a few months and during that ...

Alarm bells are ringing. Is he making money or gambling away our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - just wanted to get people's opion on this to see if I am being completely irrational or whether I am right in asking my boyfriend not to gamble anymore... my boyfriend recently started "making money" on gambling websites. he uses free introductor...

Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something ...

A really nice guy likes me, but I like someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so about a week ago, my roommate and her boyfriend decided to try and set me up with one of his roommates (let's call him John). That part of the plan is going swimmingly. He likes me but he wants to get to know me better before asking me on a ...

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the...

How can I find out if my BF really is cheating me with this other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Not really not sure how to start, I have my boyfriend of 8 months, well, recently I started suspicious that he might be having an online relationship. Hos did this happenn? well, a few months ago, he mentioned in front of everybody that this ...

Boyfriend puts no effort at all into our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Okay well i've been dating this guy for about 3 months and about a week ago we finally made it official. Lately though things he's been doing have been bothering me such as if I were to tell him about how my boss at work was stressing me out he ...

Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here...

I've always had a crush on her. Why will she not consider me instead of her B/f?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - i love a girl very much but she doesnt love me she loves her boyfriend...i always had a crush on her...it all started a year ago...she used to tell me that she loves me but it was just to make me happy...she told that she will never love me...but i ...

This woman seems interested in my husband, but I'm not sure if anything is really going on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband got attracted to his brothers wife...she is tryin to trap him she fell for her..till now they dont have any sexual contact... but he is trying to shift his job 7 hrs near to their city...still nearer is not possible for his job..so ...

Wife doesn't want to leave me, but isn't 'in love' anymore. She's happier with her FWB.

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - I'm a married man, and my wife has just said that she still loves me but is not in love with me. She says I'm a great father and husband and she doesn't want to hurt me. Then, she explained, she has a friend which has gotten into the "with benefi...

How do I curb my wish to check on him? I want to quit doing this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - How do i change myself to where i don't check up on him so much? I didn't mean to make him think that I distrust him or that i am "checking up" on him. I just tend to get worried about him and want to make sure he is ok. I trust him completely ...

How can I get him back? Or...should I even want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Okay, So I'm in a sort of love triangle, at the age of 16. Let's start at well... the start: So there's my friends let's call him Max and a girl let's call her Trudy, and then there's me. Me and Max became good friends and really flirted ...

His best friend came onto me and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Ive been with my husband, Ben, for 5 years (married for 1) and i do love him. Hes been havin a tough time lately and is suffering with depression and i seem to spend every minute i have picking him up and looking after him, which i have been happy ...

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

23 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

Do I play it safe or go for the guy where the sparks fly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating ineclusively for quite some time. In the last 6-7 months i've been dating two men. Two really amazing guys! Lately i feel like im ready to take my relationship to the next level and date only one guy exclusively and start a life ...

My b/f cheated and now I'm torn between him and another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - help! ive been going out with my boyfriend for 13 months, and about 3 month ago he slept with another girl when we were on a break, which i think is just as bad as cheating as we were on the break to make things better, not for him to sleep ar...

Is it too late? I went back to my ex but I cant get the other man out of my head....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I am a mid 20 year old woman and have been a relationship with a man for 12 years. The last eyar was rough as far as he was being verbally abusive, fighting all the time and never around, there was a man who wanted me a mid 30 year old and I fell ...

If I keep this up I'm going to get caught! Who do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy I went to high school with. We've been seeing each other for about 8/9 months. We'll call him Derrick. When we first starting talking to each other again I had just got in a new relationship. I didn't tell Derrick about it. ...

Will he tire of being there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - I have been in an off and on relationship for the past 2 years. we are off now and I at the point of just walking away for good. I have agreat friend who is a guy and he is younger than me, 28. we didnt start out as platonic friends but we are ...

I would have a good life with the first guy but feel unfulfilled sexually and I would have a good life with the second but feel so guilty and upset about the first

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - I need some help - and quickly. I am engaged to someone I have lived with for 12 years. He is a good and honest man who I love, but he is like my brother. We are both the same age and we are looking to buy our second house and start a family b...

I'm jealous that a married female colleague likes this other guy over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

21 August 2011 (M) - This is a followon from another of my previous questions regarding being attracted to a married female work colleague, and I warn you this is long question and silly, jealous thinking.. http://www.dea...

How can I let him down nicely but make it clear we are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is behaving differently to the usual, even being irritating with me and I think it's because he wants to get back together. We were kind of in an open relationship for about 1.5yrs and then we dated for about 4 months before I ...

His ex is always begging him to come home....what can we do without being cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - Ok-I was married-had an affair with my friend-also married. We fell in love. Decided that remaining married and carrying on with each other was wrong-so we confessed. I seperated from my husband and am now divorced. She begged, pleaded, guilted him ...

She wants me for sex because her husband cant give her a child! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

18 August 2011 (M) - Hi,guys help im a bit confused. im male aged 24 hear me out, when i was 17 years old i was dating a girl who was 16 at that time. she pregnant for me and later both parents discovered that she's pregnant. her parents me for damage my parent paid and ...

We've got so much work to do to get our marriage back on track but he is still talking to the girl he was seeing whilst we were separated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for the last 6 months, during which time we both started seeing other people. In the last few weeks though, we have decided that we still love each other and want to try again. The circumstances of our ...