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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: my husband got attracted to his brothers wife...she is tryin to trap himshe fell for her..till now they dont have any sexual contact... but he is trying to shift his job 7 hrs near to their city...still nearer is not possible for his job..so tat he can met her monthly once like dat..i dont know his intention is sexual or notbut she is tryin to engage in sexual acts..bcoz i saw her signals towards him when we all togethermy prob is i am feelin very hurt bcos he had attraction towards other unable to bear the pain2 nd is am i find a better one than himor my life will get still miserablehe dont have sexual contact why shold i worrie more like dis i have to think?he is makin calls daily to her..tis is giving me pain..dont know how future is..but he wont change for sure...pls give me some correct guidance....thank you.... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): This is a horrible situation. I'm so sorry! Even if there is not a sexual thing yet, it is emotional cheating. He obviously does not care much for you if he is behaving this way and dismissing your pain.
Emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating. If he's willing to uproot his life to be closer to her so that they can have an afair, he is not worth it!
Get away from him! He won't change and even if she is gone he will find someone else. He has no respect for you to do this. I know it is painful!
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