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My FWB started liking another guy so I downplayed my feelings for her, now she seems to be falling for the other guy even more!

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Question - (29 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2011)
A male Australia age 36-40, *blade writes:

i have a sex partner we've been having sex maybe just over a month now..

but i feel like our sex has been going down a hill lately.. how do u spice things up?

and.. i am falling for her but she told me she likes this other guy who she just met and she wanted to stop seeing me. It came to me as a shock i didnt tell her what we would do straight away.. so i thought about what to do for few days and i told her how i feel towards about her. Of course now shes confused coz i told her that i only wanted her as a friends with benefit so she cut off her feeling towards me.. but i feel like she's falling for him.. i really like her.. shes gone away for a week for hols..

what do u reckon i should do? wait for her to make her decision? but i dont want to lay off her too much coz im afraid to lose her.. arrggggg need everyones suggestion.. plz help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011):

if you're falling for her then just be honest and tell her that. Then let her make her decision. but you have to give her all the information to make her decision.

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (29 August 2011):

You cant just cut off feeling for someone, it the two of you. Your relationship is stricly sex. Your trying to protect your feeding hold so naturely youre in love with her. Its really in your head not your heart. This is a lay to you. It a love coz she found another. Ask her can you still continue being service by her after she starts with him. This isnt harsh talking coz if she would had respect for herself, you wouldnt be there in the first place let along try dating someone when ur humping another.

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