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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

She insisted I am the one for her, now we're married but I found her messages to other men with sexual implications!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - i am a saved man, who is married to a womam who just can't seem to break a way from her lovers in the past. Before we married i told her that maybe God had someone else for her. She has persude me for 1 1/2 years telling me that i am the only man ...

I work for an older man, he is on the verge of divorce and I feel we have become close. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey guys, i am 20 yrs old and i work for a 40 yr old man (he is married with two kids and his daughter is only 2 yrs younger then me!!) Him and his wife are seperating and may even be getting a divorce. When i first started working with him i ...

Still living with my ex and want to move on, but my new boyfriend hasnt suggested we live together

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hello beautiful people, please help me to see the truth, here is my problem…… I am divorced for one year but still living with my husband. We have been unhappily married for 3 years. It’s a camaraderie relationship with no other feelings involve...

I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...

My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust ...

Drinking can make my guy go into a rage. I've met someone nice but dont know who to be with???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've got myself into a bit of a dilemma. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years however in the beginning of the relationship he was very wild. He used to become violent when drinking, he cheated on me, took drugs. T...

Attracted to my new girlfriend's friend (who's engaged)... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for about a month now and everything is going really well. We get on well and the attaction is there. I live with my house mate and have done for some time now. Recently a new girl started work at her business and they ...

Torn between two lovers...who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I like two amazing guys and I dont know what to do. The first guy B, is very attractive, sweet, caring, loving, is always there when i need him and makes me the center of his world.B is also very clingy and is everything opposite of myself. The seco...

She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our ...

Why do I allow myself to go back to a cheating woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - i had this xgirlfriend(very pretty) who is again showing sign of interest in me, she says that she is not having an afair with anyone, but i know from a very good source that she is having sex with a guy, i will be seeing her very soon, is there ...

Why do I thrive on attention from this unavailable man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Ok well recently like a month ago a friend started text messaging me his um "secrets" which I blew off because well it was really shocking and funny to get a random text of his private parts. He has a girlfriend they have been together for a while, ...

My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we ...

My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...

I virtually met my ex after over 37 years, without our spouses' knowledge, and we love each other again...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I found my ex-girlfriend after 37 years, she in Denmark and I in Canada. We e-mail, MSN and talk (hours every day) without our spouses knowledge. We are both happily married. Now we tell each other how we love each other agin and plan to meet. Any ...

My husband has been txting an ex from years ago. I'm not handling it well....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My husband has been sending text messages to the girlfriend he was seeing before we met ten years ago. I found some of them yesterday. Up til then I thought we were happy and he was very loving and intimate with me. But in the text messages to her ...

I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for ...

I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure ...

I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he...

My girlfriend is jealous of my female friend. How can i deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - okay well iv know this girl (lets call her lucy) from when i was little, shes only 14 and im 18. iv always been like a big brother to her an looked after her, messed around etc. and she always comes to me when she has a problem. the thing is i...

I've been having an affair with an attached girl, I want her to leave him, can her relationship survive with him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - Just after some different opinions bout me problem. I know its bad but been having an affair wiv a girl whos got a boyfriend of three years. It was both emotional and sexual and quite highly charged. We became v close through it. Think it started ...

I'm 13 and he's 18 and has a girlfriend, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives ...

The love of my life is married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. Wh...

My mates been cheating on her guy and now I'm seeing the guy she's been sleeping with! What should i di??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi my best friend lets call her suzie said to me about three months ago that she really likes this guy she has known for two years, lets call him jake, and its only this year that he can return her feelings but now she has a bf! she keeps doing stuf...

I'm a mum of 2 and have met a great guy but cant help cheating with my FWB. How do i move on???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I am a divorced mum of 2 and last year i met a guy who i totally fell in love with. The only thing is, he only wants to see me for sex. He said he enjoys my company but doesnt want a relationship. I know this is wrong but i cant brake the habi...

My boyfriends female friend likes him! Its making me feel insecure. I hate her. Do i dump him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Ive been with this guy for six months now.before me he used to like a girl, but she got with his best mate and they are still together.my boyfriend and this girl are still 'best friends' though. is that possible???she really is the perfect girl for ...

Ive just got engaged and I'm happy but i fancy a girl at work! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - Hi i'm 20 and i've recently got engaged to my long term girlfriend a few weeks ago, i also look after my 9 week old step daughter from my girlfriends ex who i also love very much. I thought everything was going great until recently i have started ...

Our child passed away, he blamed himself, we've tried sorting our problems but he's txting someone else. Help..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has moved out of our home and told me he needs his own space. I really need some advise. I been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years we've had two boys but our younger one passed away whilst in the care of my boyfriend he has ...

My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...

My boyfriends work mate fancied me, to me we were only friends. Recently my feelings have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - ok, here is my problem and i need help. ive been with my bloke for almost a year and i was best friends with one of his work friends. I know that this friend saw me as more than that and no matter how hard i told him we were only ever going to be ma...

I crumbled when I saw my ex talking to a woman..I can't face anyone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I need helo, I was out at the weekend got pretty drunk and saw my ex talking to another girl (we have been kindof seeing each other again lately) he wasn't kissing her or anything just talking, anyway with the bboze i got upset and ...

Ive got a boyfriend but i like this other guy, what shall i do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Ok well i have a boyfriend and everything i really like him of course but the guy i've liked for a long time just told me he really really likes me.He asked me out when i was already going out with someone i told him that i couldnt because i had a ...

She sees her ex every day, as her mother welcomes him at their house. How do I take him out of the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - Hi, i'm in a relationship with a girl who i love but she doesnt love me yet, and a few months ago she was going to get married but she called it off, and now her ex boyfriend is still in her life because my girlfriends' mother loves him like if he ...

I am married and dont want to jeapordize that, but I think I met my soulmate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I'm wondering if anyone else is in my situation. I'm a happily married woman. I still love my husband dearly and we have never had any problems. A few months ago, I was blown away when I met another man. We were introduced through work and were ...

He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him ...

Can you love two people at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? I have a b/f of 17 months, I think I do love him and like being in his company but we have recently began to argue and not get along so great as we used to. now I find myself confused ...

In love with my recent girlfriend but my longtime platonic friend suggested a no-strings-attached relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have been dating for months and all that we have done is kiss and make out. This is fine with me because I really like her. It can be frustrating, though. Meanwhile, my longtime platonic friend Kim has made it ...

She is my ideal girl and we get along great, but she's not single! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - I've been messed around in past relationships and my self esteem was low. Then one day i met a fantastic girl with a beautiful personality and i thought superb. Sadly life is never simple and it turned out she has a boyfriend. The thing is i can't ...

She says he's just a friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - Am I being too paranoid or is something going on? I've (21) been with my girlfriend (18) for over a year now, things have been going great up until she started telling me that there is a chance we might have to end it, because of conflicts with h...

I don't want to be "that girl," but I really like a married man

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - Two years ago, I met a guy who I ended up falling for. He had literally just got into a relationship, so I didn't try anything, and I certainly didn't say anything about how I felt about him. His girlfriend ended up getting pregnant- so they ended ...

I like another guy, but my wedding is weeks away! Could this just be jitters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - Met someone 2 wks before my weddinng and can't stop thinking of him. I have been having doubts about the wedding for 6 months but kept pushing them off as everyone has been working hard for this wedding. Been with my fiance for 4yrs and never once ...

I like a guy who is already involved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - Hi I am writing cos I really like a guy but he has a gf. I have spent alot of time with him but he still has a gf. I have not done anything sexual with him because if this. My life is a bit of a mess as I dont know what i should do cos i really l...

I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years, but I've had feelings for another man the whole time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - When I was 20 i started a waitressing job. I had the biggest crush on this one customer. He would come in everyday and we had so much in common. Didn't think he (Riley) would be interested in me because he was 32yrs old. So I started to date (Gordy) ...

I think I'm sexually attracted to my best friend's wife!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I think I'm sexually attracted to my best friend's wife I've known them both since we all were in high school, and I never thought of her like that until about a year ago. Since we all are close friends, I will not act on those impulses... none...

Do I go back to my husband who I still have feelings for or continue with this other man I've met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have seperated from my husband and met someone else who I fell in love with. My husband and I are now getting on well and he still loves me, I do have feelings for him but also this other man. I have two children with my husband, what should I do? ...

My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have been happily married for almost 17 years. My husband is the best husband in the world. I want for nothing. However, I have allowed myself to fall in love with a co-worker. I feel terrible, but I can't help how I feel. We have been having ...

Ditch the boyfriend or my new love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - heres the deal i have a boyfriend lets call him computer-mad hes so sweet and handsom but he never want to spend any time with me so now im totally and utterly in love with ...abbs-and-bum he is strong manly and 16 i dont no why i like him but i ...

Should I wait and let time tell me he loves me or should I just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F) - Hello dear cupid, I have a serious problem, Okay I met him almost two years ago, the first time I saw him I liked how he was, I didn't know him that well so I didn't think about him as something in my future, well then we had the chance to get to...

My wife is bi and wants to explore women. I am ok with that, but have some fears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - Hell All, I am a 28yr old Male from Michigan, I shall call myself "Travis". I recently have gotton married to "Anne" she is 26. Before we married she stated that she is BI-Curious and would like to explore her curiosity. Well after being marr...

She isnt sure if she wants me or her ex. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - Recently a girl that I have been friends with for three years told me she felt the same way as I had told her I felt for her. We had been dating for a few weeks when an ex (who more or less pushed her to me) who had been gone all summer called out ...

My boyfriend is now friends with my ex f*** buddy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - hmm sticky situation. My boyfriend has started talking to my ex fuk buddy and there getting along quite well. the thing is they both know stuff aobut me that if the other found out i could end up in a bit of a mess :/ i dont know what to do, h...