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writes:Hi I am writing cos I really like a guy but he has a gf. I have spent alot of time with him but he still has a gf. I have not done anything sexual with him because if this. My life is a bit of a mess as I dont know what i should do cos i really like him. People say I am attractive etc but I am still a virgin and I am terrified if i tell him then he wont go out with me What shall I do?
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reader, UnknownEntity  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 you may like him alot, but does he like you?
and being a virgin or not has very little to do with relationships u should cross that bridge when u come to it
try n find some people to hang around with n u might find sumone u like n he is single also, or u can just w8 n w8 n w8 for his relationship to end n then dive in there... but
he may just take u for a rebound girl... n u dont want to be one of them...
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Why do you need to tell him you are a virgin? Why tell anyone you are a virgin? If you decide to save yourself for marriage then wait for your husband to ask. The world is full of women saying they are a virgin, and guess what, they're not. Are you trying to control him by enticing him to have sex with you? You're doing the right thing by not going there. He already has someone, so continue to stay away from any intimacy until he is free of that relationship. When and if he is free then tell him you are interested. He was never yours to begin with, so let him go in your heart. If you can't be around him because you're going crazy, then spend less and less and less time around him and try to be open to meeting other men. There are millions more out there. Live life and love, but most of all, be happy!
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