A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, i'm in a relationship with a girl who i love but she doesnt love me yet, and a few months ago she was going to get married but she called it off, and now her ex boyfriend is still in her life because my girlfriends' mother loves him like if he was her son and my girlfriends' mom wants her to get back with her ex-boyfriend. Everyday she spends time with him, not because she wants to but because he always goes over to her house. I'm getting tired of him but there's nothing i can do and theres nothing she can do... I need some advice on how to either take him out of the picture or just make my relationship easier.
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reader, sexi +, writes (28 August 2007):
Hi, speak to your gf and tell her that it upsets you when he is at her house. She can speak to her mum and ask her not to ask him to come around or she can simply not be there when he at her house. She should go to the library, mall or even spend time with you. Speak to her and see where things go.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, thaprincess +, writes (26 August 2007):
wow, seems like this ex aint going away... honestly I would advice you to give your girlfriend some space, after all they were getting married and if what you say is true and she doesnt love you :( then you might get a broken heart, its really bad that your in law invites him over, but, dont you think that if your girlfriend didnt want him there she would've said something about it? seems like you're being used as a rebound sweetheart
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