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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

The girl I love is engaged and needs time to decide to leave her fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6890 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am in love with this girl. She is supposed to be getting married this summer to someone else. I just met her but it is love at first sight. She also feels very strongly about me or at least she tells me she does. She said that she needs time ...

My friend's boyfriend hits on me whenever she's not around. I want to say something without hurting her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Hi, My problem is kind of simple, but how do I tell my friend that her boyfriend constantly hits on me when she isn't around? I don't want to tell her because I am afraid she won't believe me, but on the other hand I want her to know what he does. ...

My wife hates the idea of my close female friend. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6829 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Please help me solve a problem with my wife. I have a married female coworker who I have become friends with. We talk on the phone daily as we are not always assigned to the same location. She sends emails and pictures to me a...

My parents want me married ASAP, but now my ex has returned, swearing commitment!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Hi to all, I am 24 years girl who is engaged to a cousin. Before I got engaged I was madly in love with a guy. We had a nice relationship, but than things worsened up due to his familial issues. He simply adopted silence and did not contact me,altho...

Cheating and lying is out of my character... But it keeps happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Well where do i start, my best friend (lets call him James) has been in love with me since we met. I have realised over the past two months that i love him and it's not friendship love its deep love, i have been with my bf Alex for three months. ...

I can see my wife making the same mistakes during our separation that I did. How can I make her understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - My wife and I separated last year for a year because of my verbal anger problem, and had a female friend that I did not do anything with until we were fully separated but she thought otherwise. Six months later she asked me to come back to her and I ...

I have pre-wedding jitters..is this normal or is there more to it because I met up with an old gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I am engaged to be married and am due to get married in about 3 months. I care deeply for the girl I am going to marry and we have built a great life together and I miss her over the few days of christmas that we are apart. She is an attractive girl ...

She 180's on me when one other guy friend is around-I'm trying to figure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6896 days ago

25 December 2005 (M) - Hi...great girl I'm after at her work (bar-restaurant) suddenly quits the play with me after another guy showed up. Immediate the distancing began- and on a dime. It was very strange because our back and forth is usually a whole lot of s...

I don't love my wife any more and now I'm interested in someone else...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

25 December 2005 (M) - I am a married man of the age of 21, been married for about 2 years and have never cheated on my wife, or done anything ridculous. I haven't loved my wife for so long and just am fed up with her but I feel like I'm falling for someone else I have ...

Should I be worried that my boyfriend would go out with someone else for a week, with a plan to drop her after that week?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - I have this boyfriend and he loves me so much and I love him also. One day he called me up and told me that this other girl was after him and he said that he would go out with her for a week then dump her. I asked him if he still likes her and he ...

His roommate is too intimate with my boyfriend and I want her to knock it off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - So I have been dating a great guy for 5 months but he has a female roommate that is highly inappropriate with him. I know that they have been friends forever and I don't want to get in the way of their friendship, but it's not right for her to be ...

My ex husband married his gf. How do I find the strength to move on from this hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - My ex-husband got re-married a couple days ago. That hit me like a ton of bricks. We haven't been together for 2 and a half years and he has been with her since we seperated. I don't want to be with him, I want to be able to move on from him. I've ...

She has a new bf-but how do I win her back and prove my love for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - Dear cupid, I am a 24yr/m that is having girlfriend trouble we have been together for 2yrs 7 mo. She recently left me because she got tired of me not showing her how much i care about her or what she really means to me. Now that she is gone i do ...

There are too many people in my love relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - I am having some relationship trouble. A couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of nine months, as she cheated on me twice. What she doesn't know is that a couple of days before I broke up with her I cheated on her with someone else. ...

Guy I want to be "more than friends" with says he is dating someone... Who is married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - I am friends with a guy who wants to be more than friends. However, when I asked him when he moved from another city if he was dating someone else, he said yes. And she is married to someone else. Do you think that we can ever move from just ...

I thought we were might have a romantic understanding... until I discovered she doesn't really read English!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6901 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I am interested in a girl at work who is Hispanic and I am white. She has a live-in boyfriend, and the two of them have a little girl togather. But a few months ago she initiated contact with me and began to flirt openly with me. This tells me that ...

I rarely see my long-distance girlfriend. Now I'm falling for a coworker...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I really need help. I have not slept in 2 weeks. I am seeing my girlfriend for four years. For the last year it has been long distance. This has recently started to get to me in that we only see each other once a month. I truly thought this w...

He loves me and his ex gf.. but now he's confused and he's not sure what he wants.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I'm in love with a man that's in love with me and another woman from his past. He says that he's confused and he's not sure what he wants. He loves me but he loves her to. This has been going on for about 2 months. About 2wks ago he told me that he ...

He slept with someone else before we were serious. I think that counts, but he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Help - I can't forget about something!! Me and my current boyfriend, Lee* were seeing each other before I left my ex, Paul*. I was mad about Lee from when we first met and it took us a long time to get together but in the end we did and now we're ...

He has another gf and won't make a decison between her and I.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - I have got involved with my best friend, but he is also seeing someone else. They have been seeing each other for over 3 years, but they lives miles apart and only see each other on holiday, snatched days etc because she lives with her partner. ...

We were seeing the same man and now she won't leave us alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6906 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi i hope someone can help. me and "shell" were friends in school, not major friends, just mixed with the same people. we both left school about 8 years ago, i left to go to uni and she got a local job. wed bump into eachother and have always b...

Why is my Mum playing games with "my" guy!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6907 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I love my Mum to pieces (she’s my best friend) but yesterday she really annoyed me - big time! Although she has a downer on men in general (not fair, guys, I know!), she has been encouraging me to get to know this man that I like which has been ...

My old boyfriend is making life a complicated nightmare!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - I am frightened and in a spider's web! 6 weeks ago I got involved with a friend who is having an affair with someone else who is still living with her man (they are not married). I split with my man 6 months ago and my new man split with his g...

An engaged co-worker has confessed her feelings for me... Confused at what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6907 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - This past weekend a friend/co-worker told me she liked me as more than just a friend over the phone.well she couldn't go into in to much details,cause her financee just got in the car. yes she is engaged.she has only been with this guy for 8 or 9 ...

He loves another girl and plans on marrying her...do I tell him I love him too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Hi girls....I wonder if u could help me coz' i know this guy for a very long time and hes a very good friend of mine. Charmy/good looking. But the thing is its about awhile that i think like ive fell in love with him and i cant stop thinking about ...

I refuse to be 2nd best to his former gf...am I just wasting my time on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - You may remember this question from last week, but I still need some advice real bad. On our first date my boyfriend told me (after I asked him if he'd been in a relationship since he separated) that he had wanted to be in a relationship with his ...

Uni guy asked me for a drink but now I've seen him out with his g/f... What's the real deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6911 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Okay so I like, well really like this guy "Donny" in my class at uni. We get on dead well and are always dead flirty and he has kinda hinted to me that he'd liked to go out with me ("We should go for a drink smtm...")But, shock horror, I was on the ...

With my husband since I was 16, but now I'm in love with my brother-in-law!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, I might be in the most confusing situation then I can ever think of. Well first let me start off that I am a young wife and mother of two. I am only 22 years old. My husband and I have been together for about 6 years and married ...

I've fallen for a lad I know on the net... but he has a girlfriend already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6912 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Ok well here goes I really need some advice! I talk to a lad regularly on the net, we get on great, and we have become great friends. The thing is, I feel like I have fallen for him now and I don't know what to do. We've told each other we like ea...

The girl I love is leaving for a new job. How do I tell her I want to be with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

10 December 2005 (M) - I have worked with this girl for 4 years and she is now leaving for another job. But I have realised that I am in love with her. I never knew I had such feelings until two weeks befor she left. I know she has a boyfriend but they only see each other ...

Stay with my boyfriend or take a chance with a guy I met through text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6913 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year, with a guy I have known romantically and not for four years. It is a very good relationship and makes me happy. Over the summer we seperated for 6 weeks and through text I met a guy who I go...

I cannot trust my bf because he lies..but I love him so how do I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6834 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Hi guys. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs. he is 28 and i am 26yrs. am afraid he isnt a very good person but his family and him keeps begging me to stay with him. his mum says i am good for him and will help him. Earlier on in the relationship he ...

I'm married but very attracted to a co-worker...so ashamed of the way I feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6914 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I'm a married guy, that has been in a very loving stable relationship with my wife for over 10 years. We have a young child. My dilemma is that i have fallen deeply for a much younger co-worker. I do not know how this girl feels about me but i am ...

He changed his mind to be with her...do I continue being his friend and stay hopeful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6914 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have got involved with a very close friend of mine. I have known him for over 7 years and we have always been close and confided in each other. Until 9 months ago he was with his long term partner of 5 years and until 5 months ago I was with my ...

Now that I'm interested in someone else...my gf is willing to leave her partner! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6914 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - I am having a relationship with a woman who lives over 100 miles away and who lives with her partner. I have been seeing her for 3.5 years. Quite often I have asked her if she would ever leave her partner and she said she was not strong enough to ...

We've had flirtatious moments-do I tell her I love her even though she has a bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

7 December 2005 (M) - Hi Need some advice really urgently. I'm in love and have very deep feelings for a girl i work with in the same department (shes 30 i'm 32). She moved into our department about 2 months ago and we've really got on very well including a few flir...

I've started cheating on my boyfriend with my best friend - and I don't want to hurt either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with 'John' for about 6 yrs and approx 3 1/2 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s been ...

He openly flirts with me in class..but he already has a gf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6916 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - I started a new sociology course this year and there was a cute guy there. We got talking and we flirt and he stares at me when I'm talking. But he has started to see another girl in our group (who by the way, I get on with). I ended up telling ...

I am crazy about her...but she has a male friend. Do I end this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - Hello I divorced some seven years ago and have had a hard time coming to terms with this as I suffered a breakdown quite soon after, in fact it has taken up until recently to really get over my ex wife. In terms of new relationships I ...

He lied to me about having a fiancee-do you think he lied because he's confused and wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - hey! i'm hoping someone can shed some light on a confusing situation! basically there's this lad that i really really like and i've liked him for ages and we've kissed on loads of occasions when we've seen each other out, the only trouble is that ...

My man wants to "work on" his marriage, but does he still love me too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I'm not too sure what to make of my relationship with man who has recently decided to work on his marriage (he has been separated for 2.5 years). I have told him that it's best we break off this special relationship, but it seems he wants to ...

He's engaged to another and I think it becoming more than just a friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I posted a while back about not being friends with an engaged male.... I need to change that. I don't think I see him as a friend! We had an affair earlier in the year and because I'm an emotional person, we fell out over me over reacting. Since ...

My future girlfriend knows all about my upcoming divorce and I don't understand why she's avoiding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - This is a really tricky one and I would appreciate it if you would read the whole thing first. I am 28 and have been with the same woman for about 10 years. We have been married for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. The last 6 years...

We're happy but one thing bothers me-his friend's wife likes to flirt with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6920 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend (of about a year) and I moved in together, we have a great relationship, we're starting a business together and we're pretty much happy. There's just one thing that nags at me - and that's his friend's wife. He and her flirt back and ...

I'm attracted to man even younger than my current bf...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am so confused I am in a relationship of five years that I am not happy with (that is another story) I have been unhappy for a while now I met a man that I am very interested in but the only problem is that he is 22 years old and I am 42 my ...

Looked at his cell phone messages-I think he was planning a secret rendezvous with another girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend choose to hang out with his best friend which is a girl on thanksgiving instead of me and my family. i chose to stay home with him to see whom this girl was. ok when i saw her i felt really stupid because after seeing her i realized i ...

My friend's gf likes me-I like her. What do we do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6921 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - my mate's girl friend fancys me and i fancy her. wat shall we do. need help. tar ...

His gf-the mother of his child...deleted my phone number because she was jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I got this guys number about two months ago. He's 22 and I'm 26. We've talked for about a week or so afterwards and then I didn't hear from him after that. Now last week we bumped into each other and he told me his "baby's mother" deleted my phone ...