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writes: Hi girls....I wonder if u could help me coz' i know this guy for a very long time and hes a very good friend of mine. Charmy/good looking. But the thing is its about awhile that i think like ive fell in love with him and i cant stop thinking about him.........even when i go to sleep i dream about him......but the problem is he has got a girlfriend and last time i spoke to him he told me that he's going to marry her....girls please if u read this help me....wot do u think i should do?? Do i have to tell him that I've got feelig for him????Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2005): Hey, I think you need to step out of your comfort zone and go for it. At least then he knows that you are interested and you will never have to look back and say to yourself "if only i had talked to him". I know its not easy but then atleast you can move on.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (13 December 2005):
 If you really think of him as a friend and love him as you say you do why would you want to ruin everything for him? If he is planning to marry someone, it would be terrible for you to come into the picture trying to break him and the other girl up. You may even risk the friendship that you have with him. Think long and hard before you try to come between them, it could be that we tend to want what we can't have and if he gets married then you know you can't have him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): oh my, this situation reminds me of the Julia Robert's movie "My Best Friend's Wedding". have you seen it? if not, i would recommend that you do. so you are in love with a man who is in love with someone else. how old are you? is he talking about marriage as in he can see himself marrying her in the future, or do you think that he is going to go out and buy her a ring tomorrow? well, it is obvious the he is in love with his girlfriend or he wouldn't be talking aobout marrying her. think about why he confided this in you: because he feels you are a *friend* whom he can trust. if he wanted you to be his girlfriend, i'm sure that he would have chosen you over this other girl a long time ago (maybe before she was even in the picture?).sounds like this guy thinks of you as a friend,..that can be tough especially since you say that you "love" him. do you just love him (as friends often love other friends) or are you *in love* with him? there is a big difference. if this guy is planning on marrying the other girl, chances are he as weighed his options and picked the person he wants to be his woman for life. unfortunately for you, you are not her. go and check out "my best friend's wedding" if you are looking for some hope that things will ever work out between the two of you.
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