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writes: I am in love with this girl. She is supposed to be getting married this summer to someone else. I just met her but it is love at first sight. She also feels very strongly about me or at least she tells me she does. She said that she needs time to make decisions (leaving him, etc). I am so hurt right now. Yes I am hoping that she will leave him and be with me someday but how do I wait? How do I go on without her? I wish that I was celebrating New Years with her now instead of him and she does too.HELP Please
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reader, StarNews +, writes (1 January 2006):
 I am sorry you are hurting, but you are allowing someone in your life who is not worth the pain. She has made her choice by staying engaged. She is being dishonest to her fiance and to you. Do you really want to waste your time on someone who is taken and cheating on her fiance? Instead of wishing you were celebrating the new year with her, make a resolution to find someone who is single and available and move on with your life.
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reader, ask aunty heather +, writes (1 January 2006):
leave her now! let her go.
if she needs to think about leaving her fiance then she doesnt love you! she is cheating on her fiance with you, what makes you think she wont do that to you when you guys get together? why should you wait around for something that might happen, surely you are worth more than that? youll get over the hurt in time and youll meet some other special person.
if you left her it also might make her realise you are not going to wait around like a wee lap dog. you need to assert yourself. dont give her any deadlines because she will run a mile. just go and get on with your life. she is lying to you that shed rather be spending new year with you, because if this were the case she wouldnt be with her fiance...would she? go with your gut instinct, you know there is no future in this relationship!
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