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writes: I am so confused I am in a relationship of five years that I am not happy with (that is another story) I have been unhappy for a while now I met a man that I am very interested in but the only problem is that he is 22 years old and I am 42 my boyfriend now is 27 I don't know why I am so attracted to younger men but I am I don't want you to think that I am wierd I would never cross the line the man that I met is very mature and responsible he was attracted to me first please help me what should I do I have to ask another person cause I can't talk to anyone else on this matter Brandyp.s. this is my first time I hope I did this right Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): its good to think outside the box. you are different then most women and "most women" is'nt necessarily a good thing. it's usually the few that are not replicas of everyone else that are great!! i too am attracted younger men . i am 42 and have been dating a 23 year old for 2 yrs. now, its great. do i worry ? i am way passed that.. that's like being on a dream vacation cruise and having anxieties the whole time i am supposed to be savoring every drop!!!i just take it day to day . give him all that i have emotionally and physically and more, and that way it'll make it harder for him to choose another over me. and if he does someday, i know that i had the greatest days weeks months years of my life and made the most of them too...now thats bliss!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005): My experience is that younger man are the best they are s-w-e-e-t, unspoiled, flexible but be very careful about thinking of a long term relationship with a younger man!!!!! I married at 22 year old at 35 and everything has been great until he hit his mid life crisis at 40. I am now 52 and he is now saying he doesn't love me anymore. I guess this could happen with any man. But if I see a wrinkle or age spot I feel like dying.
Just like a cute puppy it grows to a big ugly dog. I say enjoy them now but don't make them into your life partner because they can grow up into groucy old men.
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reader, deirde +, writes (2 December 2005):
I will say to you what I would say to myself if I was in your situation, age is a number. People can think what they like. my happiness comes first.You sound to me as though you are very unhappy with the relationship that you are in at present, why stay there then?You must seem very approachable to men of this age as they feel comfortable with you and want to be with you. If they make you happy then why can't you follow your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): I say go for it!!!!!I am a 33 fm and in love with a 20 yr old ...At first i thought the age was a major problem...Guess what??? It's not!! It's all in your head. When I am with him..that;s the last thing on my mind is his age, espically since he does'nt act like a little boy.. Good Luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Hi my sister!!deciding to love someone is a tough call at times bcoz u sumtimes lose ur dignity for the one u love.they always say,age is nothing but just a number,sound stupid but it makes sense to the one falling for sumone older/younger.i do not know its safe,but my advice to u is that forget about other people,u owe ur happines to ur self.if something will give u happines now and in the future,go for it.good luck!!!!
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