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writes: My boyfriend choose to hang out with his best friend which is a girl on thanksgiving instead of me and my family. i chose to stay home with him to see whom this girl was. ok when i saw her i felt really stupid because after seeing her i realized i had nothing to be jealous of. but here is the thing the next day i took his cell phone in to get fixed i went through it and there was a message to her saying I'm home and so is chic oh shit. Did I interrupt some secret rendeavous? he is 26 and i am 22. what should I do? plus he keeps talking to his ex from Louisianna on his cell, she texts him and calls him i told him it really upsets me and for it to stop but it doesn't ahhhhhhh what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Well it sounds to me like he is bitching about you to his female friend,and the fact you have asked him to stop having contact with his ex and he doesn;t this is not acceptable, maybe you should ask him where he thinks your relationship is going? ans ask him how important the relationship is to him? because if really cared or loved you he would stop having contact with his ex because he would understand and would not want you to be hurting. I dont think he is cheating on yo with this female friend but i get this feeling maybe thier is very little communication in your relastionship and he is leaning towards this other person so he can have someone to talk too at worst he might have a small crush on this other female but i am dounbting it.
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (2 December 2005):
sounds like hes got something going on that he shouldnt. and trust me just because a woman doesnt look good doesnt mean a guy wont sleep with her when hes got a beautiful girl at home. and what the hell is this chic shit? if hes not refering to you as his g/f or by your name you can bet hes playing games as well as not spending the holidays together. thats what couples do in my opinion. id be careful and keep a close eye on this one. good luck 2 ya
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