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writes: I got this guys number about two months ago. He's 22 and I'm 26. We've talked for about a week or so afterwards and then I didn't hear from him after that. Now last week we bumped into each other and he told me his "baby's mother" deleted my phone number because he was jealous and that's why he didn't keep in touch. Anyway, We started talking again. He told me his was with his baby's mother but their relationship is in the dumps. We talk everyday for hours. I'm very interested in this guy but don't know what to do.
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (2 December 2005):
if hes in a relationship then why would you want a cheater anyways and if hes not then i still say go the other way cause all i see in your future is baby mama drama
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reader, ALEY KAT +, writes (1 December 2005):
OKAY, HES GOT A BABY, AND BABY MAMA, SO WHY ARE YOU EVEN INTERESTED? I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE THIS GUY THE HELL ALONE!!! I'VE BEEN IN THE SAME PRDICAMENT AS YOUR IN RIGHT NOW. ALL WAS WELL AT FIRST, THEN, AS TIME WENT BYE, I GOT MY HEART BROKEN, AND WE WONT GO ANY FURTHER. WHAT YOU HAVE TO THINK OF IS, DO YOU WANT TO BE SOMETHING ON THE SIDE? BABY MAMAS DONT PLAY WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR CHILDS FATHER, AND WILL ALMOST ALWAYS BRING YOU UNESSESARY DRAMA IN YIUR LIFE!!! MY ADVICE TO YOU IS FIND A SINGLE GUY!!! THEN YOU CAN START OFF WITH SOMEONE NEW, WITHOUT LUGGAGE!!! HOPE THIS HELPS A LITTLE!!! I WISH YOU LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2005): I wouldn't trust this guy as far as one can throw him. It sounds like he's lying to you and was using his kid's Mother (deleting your phone #) as a lame excuse. Either that or he's with her then in which case, he could be trying to cheat on her. Suddenly not calling you is a red flag-it's likely he just isn't that "into you" or he got caught. But, if he is single and not with this woman-then realize that when a man is 'hot' for a woman, they will 'move mountains' to get in touch with her, hun. Think about it and don't go into denial because he sure sounds fishy to me. Be cautious, don't fawn all over him. Put him to the test and play hard to get for awhile..make him work for you if he wants you. If he doesn't bother calling and gives up, then you'll know-he was "just not that into you."
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (1 December 2005):
 this sounds like it could become a very messy situation for you to get yourself into. if the baby's mother got hold of his phone, she must be in close intimate contact with him, dont you think? and if his relationship with her is in the dumps, then what is he still hanging with her for? the baby? bad excuse, and sounds as if he is playing around on the side lines ... you never know with how many others as well, if the girlfriend is so suspicious.if he wants to pesue something with you, you need to tell him you wont settle for being the other woman, and he must decide what he wants.
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