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writes: Dear cupid, I am a 24yr/m that is having girlfriend trouble we have been together for 2yrs 7 mo. She recently left me because she got tired of me not showing her how much i care about her or what she really means to me. Now that she is gone i do see how much i care for her. We have talked since then i got her a private massage with flowers and a gift basket. she really like the idea it was a surprise. After that, we talked again she said she didnt feel the love. I found out she was seeing another guy that was showing her every thing I wasn't. Also she told me{I know you can find someone } Pretty much I think she is trying to get me out of her head, she has moved on but I love her with all my heart. Alot of why this is happening too we was engaged but when i gave her the ring I didn't have a date set. It really broke her heart and that went on for a year. I need to to get her love back and get rid of the guy
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (24 December 2005):
Not setting a date for marriage should not break anyone's heart. I would guess she just bored with you and has found someone else.
Move on and find yourself a girl who appreciates depth rather than glib lines.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (23 December 2005):
 Hi dear, am sorry. Sometimes one doesnt really appreciate how much they love another until the person is gone.
You must ask yourself what you really want from this girl? what she wants?You guys obviously were engaged and i feel she wanted to take the next step and you werent ready because you indicated that it broke her heart when you didnt set a date for the wedding. If i am right are you now ready to take this step with her if she decides to come back?
since this is a recent break up i would suggest you try to talk to your girlfriend. tell her what you wrote here.That you really love her and didnt know how much until she left. That you would do anything to show her that and you were sorry you didnt show her this before. Find out if she still has feelings for you and what she wants from the relationship.
If she doesnt still love you and has indeed moved on then you just have to move on with your life. reflect and try not to make the same mistakes whether she does or doesnt take you back.
Take care now. Happy holiday.
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