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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How should I react if I run into my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hello there! My ex had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship. He asked to still be friends but he only wanted a friends with benefits deal, which made me angry. So after that, whenever he called or texted me, I didnt reply.I have ...

Why did he do this terrible things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Let me list what what my ex did to me 2 months after the break up (he convinced me to start talking to him again after a personal tragedy. For the next two months (4 months after the break up): Txted about how something reminded him of me Txted...

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...

How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going ...

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years ...

Everyone tells me I shouldn't be with him...but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having a really bad time at the moment, we have been together for a year and a half, this has been a rocky relationship from the begining but is getting worse. He is having problems with his ex over his daughter and she has ...

How long should I leave it before telling my ex I have someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I would like to know peoples opinion, especially males on what is a good amount of time to make it known that you are dating someone new, if you broke up with someone and remain friends with them. I don't want to hurt this person, but I want to move ...

Does he want to work things out or is it just the loneliness of the holidays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i love my ex boyfriend with all my heart, he was my first love, and we left our relationship in July quite estranged, and abrupt. there wasn't much closure, the reasons for the break up wasn't due to any third party at all, just, circumstantial i ...

I just don't understanding why he's doing this if he has already let go and moved on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, the breakup was not overly negative. We had no contact since, but I know that ocasionally, he still goes into the 'network myspace' to view my social profile and updates, another thing is he still has not ...

She proposed to him over the internet and they haven't even met yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend has meet this girl on the internet, well dating site, they started going out the day they started talking she asked him, anyway she seems madley in love with him, talking about moving down to where we live, she lives in Scotland, we ...

Is it worth trying to get him back? He's fallen in love with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years and we have just split up. i just dont know what to do. he joined friends reunited and got in contact with a girl he knew at school, they have been chatting on msn and texting and apparently have ...

Why is it so hard for him to tell his ex that he met someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a little concerned with my relationship. My BF of 6 months is recently divorced and we met while he was waiting for it to be final. He still hasn't introduced me to his friends because his ex is friends with them too and I also haven't met his ...

Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...

I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help? I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up...

How do I make a decision when I have strong feelings for both of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I had been dating a man for over two years. As he is in mining he was hardly ever home, and I lived about two hours away and would travel to see him when he was. We were in love, but then when I suggested it was time for us to live together he ...

What can I do about his controlling, manipulative ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5808 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm so unhappy. I'm losing my boyfriend and feel I have to give up on him. I don't want to. I've tried to be there, stick it out and cope with the awfulness we have had from the Mother of his child, but I can't. Basically his life is being ...

Confused over breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend just broke up with me today... we have been together for about, a year and half a month.. so im hurting quite a bit. thing is i dont exactly know why we broke up.. i mean hes not sure eather, he said he didnt want to break up with me...

Should I have made a move when she kissed me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi Me and my girlfriend broke up because she thought i loved her to much? I ran 12 miles to hand her some flowers and to talk about it, however her sister took the flowers and she didn't want to speak to me. as i was running back she called me a...

Should I contact her or is this a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, 3 months ago I left my girlfriend of 16 months, now I think maybe I made a huge mistake. I thought maybe she had fallen out of love with me. For one thing, she works with an ex-boyfriend who is also her best friend. They go out of town t...

My ex is texting me and being a real jerk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm really lost right now. Okay so me and my ex have been textin since xmas eve, he was soo nice and so sweet the first few days then things started to go down hill. He wouldnt call when I asked him eventhough he promised he would. I could understa...

Does my ex still like me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - On Christmas Eve I was driving back home and saw an ex getting out of his car near my local supermarket (I'd not seen him for 5 months). We both waved and I must admit I got a few butterflies in my tummy because I still hold a torch for him even ...

My guys is always going back to his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. our relationship is good except for one part. he has an ex wife who is the mother of his children who he has custody of. now, they have been divorced for 4 years, but he always end up going back to her. ...

What a complete mix up!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I have just recently left a relationship, the second time round. I actually left on Christmas Eve. To cut a long story short, three years ago i was in a relationship with my partner for 9 years (gay relationship) and it ended when i met my new ...

He talks about having sex with me. Is that all he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - dumped my ex because I wanted things my way and got angry when he didn't do what l wanted. l realized my mistake and apologized.I told him l wanted him back.he told me he had moved on and is now dating an ex of his-said I am the one who pushed h...

I have to choose between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some help and advice. I have to decide between two men and I just dont know what to do. One is my ex. We dated for almost a year, and I know that is a short time but we had chemistry and nobody like him ever made me feel like ...

I want him back but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Okay so my problem is I am still in love with my ex boyfriend even though our breakup was almost 2 years ago, and I really want him back! He's the only guy I ever had real feelings for. In elementary school we used to be BEST FRIENDS but I always h...

What is my ex trying to achieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Back in June 07 me and my ex split up since then we haven't spoken two words to eachother until recently, when i have been going clubbing he has been trying to speak to me and everywhere i am at in the club he is right behind me holding a drink for ...

My ex is an illegal immigrant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is an illegal alien and this is the reason he broke up with me. He does not want me to be attached if he gets sent back to his country. I can't go because I have a little girl and el salvador would not be good for her. The thing is ...

I still love the ex I dumped!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few years ago in a panic even though I was still in love with him. He was nice about it and moved on. He's been dating this girl who used to be my good friend for over a year now and I'm still in love with him. I ...

We broke up but we still love each other and I'm really confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

28 December 2008 (?) - Im in a scary situation right now and im so unsure about what im doing. my ex and i were together for what would have been two years this may. we broke up in august, got back together on and off for a while and broke up for good on thanksgi...

Should I alert him to what his girlfriend is doing (prostituting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up over 2.5 years ago. I got over him pretty quickly and am now happily married. The problem is, his "new" girlfriend is an insecure piece of trash and has been cyber stalking me for the past two years. She would send me hateful ...

Wanting to explore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Okay, so this is a strange problem. or maybe it isnt, i dont know. im 19 and in a serious relationship with a guy i know i want to spend my life with, and have been with him for over 3 years. but recently i felt this push from inside, something ...

Should I start dating also and just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - My (ex) girlfriend told me she needed some space. Her reasoning was to figure out her own happiness and get away from the stress of a relationship. Later it seems that she wants to date other people but she says that its just "something to do." We ...

Do you think she's really already moved on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - My gf broke up with me a month ago saying she doesn't love me anymore and she wants to concentrate on her career. I was devastated. I cudnt sleep or eat for days I begged her to come back to me but she said no she doesn't feel the same. She said we ...

Ex trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - My ex bf, has just meet this girl on a dating website, and started dating she seems really up for him same for him, she also seems really rude when saying things she would do to him and he loves it, anyway the other day he said 2 me that she wants ...

Why doesn't he contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - What have i done wrong, my ex bf and i talk on the phone everyday, i saw him yesterday and he said ill speak to u later which we did last ntie, anyway this morning i texted him asking for him 2 prank me when he could this was at 10.30 and ive still ...

Why do people sleep with each other after they have split up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - why do people sleep with eachother after they have split up,? Thats what me and my ex have been doing for the past 3 months, and i dont think there is any chance of getting back together as hes in a long distance relationship and has never meet her...

Do I have any hope as we still both get on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I really want my bf bk, we split nearly 3 months ago, but still are friends, we talk on the phone everyday,and see each other ome days as well, we gave eachother xmas presents and everything, we also still have sex, They only problam is he now has ...

Why does he degrade me so much when we once had a life and family together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

27 December 2008 (?) - Why is he treating me like this? My ex hates me. We have three young children together who he sees every fortnight. He has asked to see them every weekend but I said no as my he had this option in the past and decided that it was too much for him as ...

Should I ask him back or wait for him to do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - My ex got in contact with me after 5 months and now I am confused. He has never been one to talk about feelings and admits it himself, he says he has trust issues. We met up for a drink and he was treating me very well like we were together again, ...

Why can't he just be with me and be happy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Okay so I meet this man and and from that moment on we were together, literally, i moved in with him and we were an automatic couple. he had noticed me for 4 months and had wanted to be with me so he says but i never noticed him till he actually ...

Ex is confusing the hell out of me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - So a few months ago my first real love broke up with me. I was so heart broken. We try to be mature about it and be friends. Well that doesn't work. I guess we are so sexually attracted to each other that every time we try to hang out, we end up ...

Forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Back in July I met a man that I gave my heart to. Well things didn't go how I wanted them, I got pregnant in August, and in September, the day after I miscarried, he dumped me. He'd already been seeing someone else. It was very hard to get over, and ...

Should I send this to my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - to cut a long story short, i want to get with my ex link again but he's being long about it even though he said that he wanted a second chance..he said he needed time to think but i don't want to wait, could i send him this text; u cool? i real...

Really what's going on, does it sound like there is still a conection between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Please,please help me Its driving me mad me and my ex ahs been split for 3 months now, but still talk on the phone every day, anyway i gave him an xmas present on christmas eve, and he had bought me one, which he gave me last nite, anyway, last nit...

Why's he being like this to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone merry christmas. This is about my ex bf, xmas eve i went down the pub where he works, i had my camera and taking loads of people with it, especially this one guy,as he's my friends bf, anyway i didn't think much of it but i saw him last...

Anyone else had this type if divorce issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - My partner is going back to the USA to be at his daughter's wedding. His ex wife will be there but he does not wnt me to go. He says we can't afford it and that it would be very uncomfortable as it is her territory (she will be with her partner). ...

How do I get back with the ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

26 December 2008 (?) - I dated this guy that I really like hella A lot he is funny cute hott. but I just have never dated real I have only kissed a guy on the lips nothin else and he has done way more like have sex and stuff. well I broke up with he because since I wasn't ...

Ex boyfriends, handjobs info

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hey I am a fifteen year old girl and I really need help. So my ex can't seem to let go of me. He has a girlfriend but when he gets bored with her he tries to hook up with me. He tells me how much he misses me, but he stays with his girlfriend. I ...