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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

A letter to my ex: your thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - For background please see: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-my-exgirlfriends-intentions-here.html I'd appreciate your thoughts on this letter. (Sorry for the length). J, I have been thinking about how I feel of late, and there is ...

He's back in my life again but I don't want to give myself false hope.

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21 December 2008 (F) - Two years ago, I fell head over heels for someone. We were together for 5 months. There was an amazing chemistry between us and it seemed obvious we were meant for each other. At some point he told me that he had recently been dumped by his 7-year ...

Is my waiting for him pointless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - So I'm back posting again after a month since my ex (20) and I (22) broke up. Let me say it has been a really hard month too... To recap, he broke up with me because he realized he wasn't ready to be in a relationship because he realized how ...

How can I convince him to give me my files back without putting myself at risk emotionally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My ex of 5 months has all my computer files on his external hard drive. My computer was about to crash so we put it on there for safe keeping months before we broke up. Well I kept asking him to find a way of giving them to me beforehand and like a ...

Can we get back together for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - I am a 39 year old divorcee. In May this year I met and fell in love with the most wonderful woman of 32. We had so much in common and spent a lot of time together. We travelled a lot and were making plans to move in before Christmas. She built a ...

I'm caught in the middle between two wonderful women that I have feelings for.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - You've read it before. The typical man is married/engaged/in a relationship and befriends a coworker, where feelings start to develop. My situation: I'm happily engaged with my fiance, but have been getting to know a coworker more in depth. ...

Does his silence mean something has happened with his ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I started dating a guy about a month before everyone went away home from university for Christmas. Before he went we were lying in bed and I asked him if he was looking forward to go home and seeing his family, and he said he didn't know because ...

Had sex with ex now wondering if it was wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - friday nite i had a friend of mine round, she used to be my girlfriend but i dumped her, anyway we ended up having sex and after she stayed for an hour, we where on my computer both looking at it laying on are bellies and just talking, then all of a ...

Sleeping with an ex what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - When u still sleep with an ex does it mean that there are still feelings between the 2 of them, even tho u split a month and a half ago? Thats what me and my ex are doing, and a lot of people we know down the club we go to, say that you both wou...

Ex involved, having sex with me. I feel guilty, he doesnt!

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21 December 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, i made a really big mistake last nite, basically im still really good friends with my ex bf we split nearly 4 months ago, but we where still sleeping together until 2 weeks ago, he found this girl through face book but she live in ...

We broke up said I wouldn't contact him, but I wished him a merry christmas. Should I not have done that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My ex and I had a horrible break-up. We were only together a few months, however I was living with him and going to work with him everyday. We spent 24/7 together. He wronged me by lying and playing head games. THAT I know. We stopped talking, even ...

What should I do if I still want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed ...

Why is he still calling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I have this ex "boyfriend" or whatever he was. We had a casual relationship for five months but I told him I couldn't handle it anymore. So he asked me out but after a week,he said doesn't want a girlfriend right now because of his grades (he's not ...

Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him...is that wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to want an ex-boyfriend because he has an excellent body? Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him... is that wrong?...

Why does she text me like we're still together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - I'm trying to get over my ex-gf by ignoring her to the best of my abilities (she knows that I am trying to ignore her, too). She is a textaholic and when we were dating she would literally give me updates of what she was doing several times an ...