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female
age
36-40,
*ilmisskara
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. our relationship is good except for one part. he has an ex wife who is the mother of his children who he has custody of. now, they have been divorced for 4 years, but he always end up going back to her. he and i split up in september, and recently got back together last month. they were seeing each other during the split. then he carried the kids and himself to where she lives in another state from christmas eve to saturday and left me here at our house. he then told her she couldnt come back with him. but he wont tell her about me. Why wont he tell her we're back together? i mean if its over between them, and we live together why cant he tell her were together? am i the girl on the side?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Yes you are. Tell him he has to choose between you. It's hard when someone has children and can't see them, but he's with her so he has to make his mind up who he wants. You could be getting messed about like this for ever.
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