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writes: Okay so my problem is I am still in love with my ex boyfriend even though our breakup was almost 2 years ago, and I really want him back!He's the only guy I ever had real feelings for. In elementary school we used to be BEST FRIENDS but I always had a crush on him. Then as we got older, my feelings became more serious. I kind of liked other guys as well but no one like him. Finally he asked me out and we were together for the happiest few months of my life, but we ended it. The last year or two has been really awkward because we haven't spoken to each other AT ALL. Last week I decided to break the barrier and actually had a conversation with him which went well. And I know he hasn't dated anyone since me.My question is what can I do to get him back? I know that our connection is special, but I'm worried that he might have gotten over it and maybe he doesn't want to start associating with me again. He's all I can think about and I don't know what I should do to make him mine again.
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reader, prenezmoila +, writes (29 December 2008):
Don't focus on getting him back just yet, that might not happen. Work on being a friend to him first. Take it slow. I had this happen to me, and in the end, we broke up again. Build up a solid mental relationship, and if it's meant to happen, a relationship will follow. Don't unload your feelings on him just yet, wait until the right time. Good luck, hope it all works out for the best :]
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (29 December 2008):
tell him how you feel thats the only way you will know if he still want you
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