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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Could this pain mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, four days after I ovulated this month I had a pain in my ovary! I've been trying to get pregnant for few years now and this is the first time I have had a pain in my ovary after ovulation. Could it be something related with pregnancy?...

Why do my legs always have these goosebumps on them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and my legs have got like goosebumps on them the whole time... they're red and purple and my legs always feel really rough even straight after I shave.. What is this and how can I get rid of it? thanks em x...

Why am I always being dumped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Why are the girls in my relationships the ones who finish it? And why so early in to it?...

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it ...

I really thought there was chemistry between us. Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 March 2009 (?) - So I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and I were together for what would have been two years next month. We broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until February when I cut off all contact. He broke up with ...

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a ...

I don't want to see her happy... what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I think I have convinced myself that I like my best friend's boyfriend but in reality I genuinely like this other boy. I think it is more to do with that fact that I like attention and all I'm doing is messing with people's heads to get it... I ...

I can't stop my cravings... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm 13, nearly 14 and I have a bit of a problem. Basically, I can't seem to help my cravings. I'm not really 'fat' but I've noticed that my thighs and stomach are getting bigger. I know I eat far too much junk food like chocolate and crisps but I ...

Does having a simple, tiny "crush" on the same sex, even though you are definitely straight, make you bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I know, I know. Some of you might respond with "EWWWW" or "GROSSS" etc., but I just wanted a little input. I didn't mean for this to happen. I've always been straight. Boyfriends, the whole deal and what not, I've been through it.. but recently ...

I love my girlfriend to bits but I just can't picture her in a sexual way...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I've got a question. My gf and I have been togehter for a long time like 2 years and I love her with all my heart. I'm going to see her in a little bit and it's just gunna be me and her at her house. Her parents trust me and we're ...

Does smoking effect the way the pill works on the body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm taking the pill and have been for nearly two years. However last year I started smoking. I am on the last few pills for this month and I am going on holiday in a couple of days. I was planning on missing the gap between packs so that I won't be ...

Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final ...

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we ...

Blowjob information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue....

I have a question about female orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - i have a question about female orgasm , im a virgin so since women orgasm from clit preassure , either from oral or during sex from he preassure of the man's pubic bone . so why is vaginal intercourse enjoyable ? i mean it is for the man cause of t...

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back ...

What do you think: shaved or natural?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex....

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by ...

He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help ...

Is there anyone out there who thinks the same way my friend does? If so maybe you can help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - I apologise in advance for the long article, I hope it doesn't put you off from reading it but I need some advice from those who are or have in the past been in a similar postion. There is this girl I used to date a while back now but I can't get ...

I'm being teased for being frigid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I am just turning a teen and all my mates are snogging their boyfriends and not only have I not yet kissed a boy but I am also being teased for being frigid. help!...

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed ...

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...

Romantic night in...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want to plan a romantic night for me and my boyfriend. I was thinking making dinner having a few drinks and dressing in something hot with sexy underwear underneath followed by some hot love making! Does this sound good to guys? or what else can...

I don't want my ex to find out I am cheating with his friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - my ex broke up with me because i cheated on him with a family member.. we are now planning to meet face to face so we can talk things over, but am having a fling with his best friend again which is still unsolved and he has not heard of it just ...

Give him up and spare her feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - heres the problem. ive met this boy that is totaly perfect for me. hes everything id ever want and id love to meet him and get to know him even more than i already do. but this is where it gets complicated one of these girls from my school, i ...

Fantasies about my teacher in church!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have fanices about my teacher and me doing things........ IN CHURCH!!! My teacher goes to my church and he bent over and this thought went thru my mind! Here it is (I wanna play piano and he plays it.) I was at his house and he was ...

Is it wrong to have a baby now when we're so ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want a baby. I'm 16, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he's dying to be a father. I started college doing childcare because I thought I'd love working with children, but soon discovered that nursery work really was not for me so qu...

I gave my band teacher a Hard-on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - OHMYGOD! I gave my band teacher a Hard-on! I wore a little more make-up than I usually do, and I took extra time to look good on the bowling alley trip. I was up and I got a spare and then when I sat down beside him and hugged him. I just look...

I've read enough Mills and Boon books to know that "love" doesn't actually exsist and I'm never gonna truly fall in love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old, I am very mature for my age. My boyfriend is 20 and he's been after me for 6 months, in the end I gave up and started to date him. The thing is, I still see him as a friend and when he tries to do coupley things I get annoyed....

Web cam phobia.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who I am totally in love with and have been for the past 4 years has moved to work in London for two months and I live in Liverpool. Here's the problem - he wants me to perform for him on webcam the way I do when in the bedroom and ...

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I ...

He says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before. I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did...

We're just friends but the way he stares at me I think he feels more for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Robert this boy in my shop is acting weird. He talks to me sometimes by texting and in the shop I look over and he's staring at me. It seems like he talks about me but I don't know. When he stares at me I smile back and pretend like it's normal but ...

Confessions of a teenage drama queen.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I always feel like I bottle my emotions, and I don't let out how I really feel. This isn't a question, this is a chance to tell the world how I really feel. I hope it will make me feel better. I say things I know I don't mean, but I say them anywa...

Help!!!! Stuck in a love triangle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in a sort of love triangle I suppose. I'm sorta with this guy Mark but a while back I went out with his best mate Josh, who I still love soo effing much but like I'm happy with Mark cos he makes everything amazing and I do love him... but ...

4 Friends, one guy... what happens now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I give my best friend this guys msn because I love him, she said she would get me with him she started going out with him, the same thing happened again with 3 more people and I'm realy worried that I might just, not be the one for him, but the ...

Once I have her, I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - What is wrong with me? I'm 14 and one minute I'm head over heals for a girl... and do everything in my possibility to be with her and go out with her... I fell in love for her but once I have her... I don't want her as much as I used to when I was ...

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...

Just lately my emotions have been everywhere like a rollercoaster!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Look I know I'm too young and this might sound stupid to your ears (mine too), but this is how I feel. I'm a 15 year old male and I really want to have sex... yes I know I have self control but it's really hard having to deal with the urges all the ...

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

Help! I have problems with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married for two years and I have never been on top during sex!! I just can't do it as it hurts and I can't give my husband oral sex! I did it once but it disgusts me?!!!!!!!!! Is this normal or what ?...

Just answer the damned questions!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hey!! Well I've just have some pretty simple questions that I want to ask. 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Why are they taken away from us when we need them so badly?! 2. Why can't true love be real?! Or is it really and I'm j...

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to ...

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

My friend is now going out with the guy I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have really really fancied this guy I know through friends for about six months. Recently I met him at a gig and we got on great and I got the impression he liked me. My best friend (who knows him quite well) found out I fancied him. She said she ...

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me ...

Basically I want to be single, I'm only 15

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My gf and i have been together now for a 1 year and 5 months. I love her but recently i have started to get bored and love her less. Basically i want to be single,im only 15 so i dont want to be with one girl practically all my teenage life. My q...

Shave or not... how to ask the question?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl. I have had acne on my bum area so my confidence has been really low. I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while and we're thinking about having sex, but if I do... how do I ask him beforehand if he likes shaved or ...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...