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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

A gay guy hitting on a lesbian??? Really?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. I'm gay for one. My best friend is a boy (J). Well, I thought he was gay as well. I mean, he told me he was bi when we first met. But I just assumed that he was gay because he never stopped talking about this one boy. Well... ...

How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the ...

Me on top?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a couple of weeks now and we've had sex a few times. I really want to try going on top, it's something that I fantasise about often and he's said he wants me to but I've never tried it. I can usually get on top but t...

What exactly is the Atkins diet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I'm a little confused. I'm wanting to try the Atkins diet, but the thing is I am not quite sure what it is or what it involves, I've just heard that you can lose a lot of weight from it. Would you recommend it? And what is it exactly? ...

He's going out with me but flirts with her. Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - okay so me and this guy are going out and theres this one girl that he does the whole tap your right should then jump to the left side while she looks the wrong way thing and he'll be talking to her then just reach in her pocket right outta nowh...

Is this a sign of an STD?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hey like 3 weeks ago i was having lots of sex with my GF once a day at least but like recently ive found red spots that arent bumpy they go if i dont have sex/BJ for awhile but come back when i do, me and my GF where both virgins. is this a seri...

We broke up, I still love her and people are saying really mean things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hi im 15 and i was in a 2 year relationship. it had its ups and downs but we made it this far untill a couple nights ago. heres the story ill make it short. my gf and i were textin one night and all the sudden she asked why i hated her ex. i said: ...

How do you keep him interested when others like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - we both like each other, i probably like him more but i know he does actaully like me to some point. he speaks to me online for hours sometimes and says really sweet things. we hardly see each other in person as we dont have any mutal friends ...

Crazy about a guy but don't know how he feels any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now. I'm young, but I am crazy about this guy... Now knowing my age I have high school exams so I can't contact him a lot. I love him LOADS, he's my world, I don't know what to do because when I get in conta...

Sperm filled fingers!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of ...

I have way too much going on right now to think about a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - i think i am prego! someone please help! i feel like my period is coming but it doesnt. i dont cramp or anything. but i just feel it i have been spottin a little bit of blood but it is not a lot. i am 19 years old. i work a full time job and a pa...

It got completely out of control and the lie got so big, we couldn't back out of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I've been friends with a girl named Natalie for about 6 months now. She lives 40 minutes away from me. My friends that live close to me and I decided that it would be funny to lie to Natalie and tell her that I had this huge compli...

Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...

I really don't know what to do. He's in my dreams, I really miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm really confused about this guy I know,I've known him since I was 5,we barely see each other now.. We were never really close,but there was has always been this strange umm.bond like an electrical current that flows between us.It was like him and ...

Is it normal to be curious at 14?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I feel so dirty. I find myself looking at porn or toys and playing with myself. Is it normal to be curious at 14? How do I stop myself doing it again? I want to stop cos I know it's wrong but when I'm feeling down or horny I find myself doing it ...

Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...

We've been friends for a while, should I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - we've been friends for a while, and I really wanna tell him that I like him, but I'm too scared that things will get awkward afterwards, or it's not mutual. My friends think that he likes me... Like he often teases me (is that a sign?) and does ...

He says he loves me as a mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - ok im so confused. Theres a lad whos a mate of mine that seems to have some sort of problem in talking to me... i don't know why its so weird. Like if we are alone at college in a morning before other people will get there he'll probably talk for...

How do I convince her to forgive me and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - okay so here is the story.. my 2 best friends were dating and one day me and the guy went out and something happend. i was going to tell the girl but one of my "friends" went and told her before me. so now she doesnt trust me. she doesnt even ...

Dont know what to do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...

My online guy is all giddy about seeing his ex and seems to care less about me, is this strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, I've met a wonderful guy over the net during July of last year, we haven't met yet. Everything was fine and good, then his ex came into the picture saying she's visiting. She says she wants to hook up with him, and doesn't care what pos...

Is this a good idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weev bin goin out for five months now, and in a few days itll be our sixth month, this one's gonna b special cuz its also my bday! I need to kno if this is a good present idea, im gonna buy her a meaningful ring, not too ...

I seriously have no idea what my heart wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I seriously have no idea what my heart wants. Its confusing for me. I know this guy who i'm currently really close with. Or maybe, I was really close to him. He's my senior in school and is one year older then i am. He asked me to be his sworn sist...

I am so insecure about this I don't even want to have sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have always been a little unconfortable about "down there" but now Im really ashamed. I have a really big labia on the right side and its kind of umm "loose" I had a boyfriend a while back and he is the only one I have ever been with. He was givi...

Why do guys turn into womanizers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I know this guy and we made out a couple of times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I like him but it turns out he is a big manwhore who sleeps around. I heard that he was in a 3 year relationship not too long ago. I dont know the exact details ...

Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 13. Me and my girlfriend have kissed already. But she doesn't seem to want to makeout with me. I know not to rush her. And I'm not. But we have a strong realationship and we love each other. Should I wait for the right time or just dive in?...

Please help me! Should I get back with my ex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do! My ex boyfriend who I dated for a year and broke up with because he cheated on me with one of my close friends and one of his ex's. Also because I found out he would flirt with a bunch of girls and his ...

Being led on hurts so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he ...

Romeo and Juliet situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what my heart wants. For some background information I dated a smart boy with the sam beliefs as me and who over time became my best friend in the whole world. My world revolved around us and our relationship. Because of this, we got to ...

Problems with my Xbox friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so ...

I'm not in love with him, but what do you think of this situation?

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16 March 2009 (F) - This guy who's a boyfriend of my colleague started coming on to me on a job training (he's one of the trainers) he was shy didn't talk much, until the next day we found ourselves in an elevator together(i know what are the odds?!) so he asked me a ...

I need your help here! How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me? Do I have to open up first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm having trouble opening up to my girlfriend to get her to open up. I always imagine just being totally romantic to her and kissing her passionately but I'm afraid of the out come is what scares me and if I screw up. I feel like such an idiot ...