A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Recently, Girl (A) and I have gone in and out of a relationship.First, we went out for like 2 months and then broke up for a while, then went out again and i broke up with her, and then we went out once more and she broke up with me. After the longest time we went out, I started talking to Girl (B) and (in my opinion) I jumped the gun and asked her out too soon and we sort-of quit talking to each other. However I've always really liked girl (B). Then, at a basketball tournament after Christmas, girl(A) sat with me. Then this past weekend, girl (A) was at another game, and one of her friends saw me and told me that a group of people from their school was sitting together and invited me to sit with them.While i was sitting there though, this one guy who is best friends with girl (A) kept calling me her man, and that didn't set well in my head. Girl (B) has now been dating someone though for about 2 months, and I don't think I should go out with girl (A) again because I would only be doing it to make her happy because I really like girl (B), even though she is taken. In my opinion, if I stay single that would put me in a better situation if Girl (B) breaks-up and becomes single, and I wouldn't have to disapoint girl (A) especially because (A) and (B) go to school together. Also, the other night i got to listening to sad songs and I started to look at pics of girl (B) on myspace and 2 hours went by so soon and I'm really mad that she's taken, but what can i do!?!Am I doing the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): No, you shouldn't.
Sorry, hun, but it sounds like they're both a waste of your time.
Hang out with some other girls for now, and then if you meet someone you like better, go out with her, and if you don't, you can still wait.
Good luck hun xx
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reader, superman-  +, writes (19 January 2009):
well i think you should try moving on tbh
beacuse what if girl B dosnt break up with
who ever shes with for say 2 years?
are you going to sit around waiting for her
you should get with someone else for the time bieng
and maybe you'll find someone better than girl B who knows
and the situation with girl A isnt a good one
trust me iv been there , i was ina on + off relationship for 2 years
waste of time to be honest
i could have spent my time doing something worthwhile
than wasting it on + off relationship
hope this helps .
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