I really like this guy but there's another girl

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Question - (19 January 2009)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

iv been out with a few guys, and iv loved one. he dumped me and i eventually got over it. reciently , theres this guy, and its like so different ... theres something special about him, hes the nicest looking guy iv ever seen, i love his personality, he's like perfect. he says he likes me and that, but theres this other girl, i asked him about her and he said hes been really close with her for a long time, and he doesnt wanna go out with her incase theyr not as close if they break up. im so jelous of her, and just wish he didnt like her, i want him so much and i cant stop thinking about it. why do things never turn out right for me? what should i do about him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

Well, If he doesn't want to go out with her, I wouldn't be too worried. Chances are, she might not want to go out with him either.I am going through the same thing as you right now so I totally understand. You said they've known each other for a while? If they were that interested in each other in a romantic way, they probably would have gone out by now. Just get to know him better. Talk about things he is interested in and maybe he will begin to like you the same way he likes her, and if your lucky, he'll like you more.If he talks about her a lot he could even be trying to make you jealous and him being afraid of the whole breaking up thing could be an excuse.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

let him know that does upset you and you want him really bad and see if he feels the same way tell him if you think if its going to work out between him and this other girl and if not then you need to make the first move kiss him and see if he kisses you back start taking his heart and putting it with yours steal him a little dont get jealous over this other girl win your man

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

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i have already told him i like him, he still goes out places with me etc, but he tells me about his 4 hour chats on the phone to the other girl, it gets me upset and jelous, and to be honnest, makes me want him more .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

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i have told him, i still go out places with him, but he tells me about his 4 hour chats on the phone to the other girl, i get really upset and jelous .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

Try being upfront with him. Tell him that you think he's all those things and just let him know how you feel and that you know he likes this other girl, and thats why you wanted to tell him, that way he has a choice, after that it's all up to him. You shouldn't force him to choose you, but you'd regret it if you never told him at all that you wanted to be with him instead of him being with her. tell him soon, before things between him and this other girl get more serious

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A female reader, Lucyx +, writes (19 January 2009):

Hello, Oooh cute guy is he?!

Maybe you should tell him how you feel and just let him know because otherwise you may miss out and later regret it.

The worst that will happen is that he will say no, but just ask him, you never know what will happen.

Take Care

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