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writes:Hi everyoneMe and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3-4 months now, and I've just recently started taking the pill. The first time we did it without a condom and he came inside me, I was on top... But I completely didn't realise it would all start leaking out of me and I'd have to dash to the bathroom to clean myself up. Total moodkiller, and what's more, embarrassing! I never really thought about it happening like that before, though I guess it makes sense. What if he were on top? Is it always gonna leak out (sorry), or can I just, er... leave it there?Has anyone else experienced this problem (or was as surprised as me to find out)?Thanks in advance. I'm really confused
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 It should not be considered embarrassing because it happens with us all. Simply keep an old towel or wad of tissues handy to mop-up a bit after. Sex is a little messy but worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): I suggest putting yourself in another position. This way the mood isn't ruined, and you can enjoy it a lot more. You're right, it can be embarrassing, so maybe just shift positions a little. Experiment, and he'll probably be understanding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): On top or underneath, it will leak out. Just treat it as extra lubrication and a mingling of your respective juices. Don't dash off to the bathroom - that IS a passion killer. Keep him inside you for as long as he's got an erection, maybe roll onto your side whilst doing so. Once it subsides he'll drop out sooner or later and that's the time to reach for the tissues. Then after you've mopped up have a nice long post-coital cuddle and fall asleep together. Lovely jubbly!
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reader, didda123 +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Well you've guessed it 'what goes up must come down' so they say lol. If you are on top yes it will always come out depending on how much sperm was ejaculated at the time.After making love it is nice to lie together and maybe cuddle though you are right it can be a passion killer leaping up to run to the bathroom but if you put yourself in another position for a while afterwards everything should be fine.Hope this has been helpful x
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