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My mind is telling me to move on but my heart is saying otherwise.

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Question - (19 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A male Palau age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend have broken up for over a week now, we are school mates so I see her every day and it's really hard for me, I still love her a lot. The reason we broke up is because she is having a hard time giving the time because she isn't legal to have a boyfriend and she knows that time is sort of an issue for me. We broke up before because of it and we got back together and I am telling her that it is no longer an issue with me.

She still thinks it is and it's hard for her that she cant give herself time. The other reasons is that she is having a hard time keeping our relationship a secret from her parents. I am trying to move on but it's really hard since my feelings for her are still strong, it's like my mind is telling me to move on but my heart is saying otherwise. What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

if you really want to be in a relationship with her again then go for it tell her you really love her and you dont want anything or anyone to stand in the way of your love. if you really care for each other your parents wouldnt even matter i know how it feels to hide your relationship from your parents its hard but if you two really love each other youll fight for each other. love always finds a way.

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A female reader, Lucyx United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2009):

Lucyx agony auntWell it must be hard, maybe you and the girl have to have a serious chat where it is only you and her involved and talk about what you two both want as a couple. If you both want to stay in the relationship and think its worthwhile then seak to her parents with her about it, this will als show her just how muchshe means to you.

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