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writes:plz answer this question....i dated this girl honestly it wuz the best relationship of my life (im 16 shes 14)we went out 4 6 months it wuz all perfect until sumone made up a gosip bout me cheating on her of course it wuznt true but she believed it so we broke up.i begged her to come back and i did everything that i could to make her understand that it wuz all a gosip(i begged her for 4 months)but she refused,she wuz the 1st girl ive ever cried for.so as time went by she turned out to be a very good friend of this guy that i hated and eventually they started dating.a month later my friend found out that is wuz a guy that made up the gosip and that guy wuz the guy i hated ( her boyfriend) of course she found out but still stayed with him for a couple of weeks and then she came back to me..the relationship wuz better that out relationship before everything wuz once again perfect we where always together in school and on basketball trips.but one day she said she needed timeso i gave her time then i found out she wuz seeing that guy again and all sorts of other stuff that just broke my heart.i even saw them kiss on the stands during a game once again it broke my heart and asked coach to switch me out...we stopped talking to eachother which wuz very unusual because we would always talk to eachother no matter wat.now we both wanna go back out but we both doubt that it wont work out anymore and well iam scared that she will end up hurting me again...what should i do or tell her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): I'm 15 and I know what you're going through. It seems to me that she's just going back and forth because she doesn't know what she wants, and her not believing you and believing the gossip means she's not the one or your type. Maybe it's the best way to move on. I understand age doesn't matter but at age 14 she barely got in the teenage level and she doesn't know what she wants or who to believe. I think you shouldn't cry or worry about it.. like they say, there are more fishes in the sea :)
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