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female
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30-35,
*nna*belle
writes:Hi, I’ve posted some questions earlier about my ex. The fact is that I love him with all my heart and I want him back. Just to try and sum up the situation: We’ve been broken up for almost three months now, which was my doing, unfortunately, after we’ve been together for 20 months. We go to the same school so we see each other every day. We didn’t speak much for the first two months after the break up, but when we did it was always on a friendly basis. I followed some of the agony aunts and uncles advice (thanks:-)) as to tell him how I feel and I wrote it in a letter. He told me that he’d been writing a response letter and would send it, but he never did. That doesn’t really bother me, but it said in my letter that I still had feelings for him and I haven’t had any response on that part. Since that we started talking a little more. On New Year’s Eve we were at the same party, we started talking, we kissed and were a little intimate. Since then we have started writing on a more daily basis on MSN and text messages, I usually let him decide in which direction our conversations lead and often he’s been telling me that he misses me and our time together, he dreams about me etc. etc… and is overall just being really nice and caring when we write together. Does this mean he still has feelings for me, and is there anything I can do to make him be clearer about that?Is there anything I can do to let him know that I’d like to be with him again WITHOUT scaring him away?Thanks in advance :-)
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (20 January 2009):
You have already told him how you feel in the letter, I think now you should just chill continue texting and writing.Telling him about your feelings over and over again will only push him away. He may still have feelings for you but is afraid the relationship will collapse like the last time. Just give him time.
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