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writes:I have three girls i have been talking to!! they all have told me they are in love with me!!! I wabt them all but dont want to break their hearts =[=[=[=[, how do i choose?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): Hello lad, I looked up this "issue" because my brother told me about two girls who are constantly chasing after him. I had to remember my high-school time... I have an idea of what it feels like... I had to go through the same thing...Here's what I did: I fell in love with one, she's still a virgin at the age of 23 or 24 now... and I still love her, but I don't know where she is...Another one I went out with on a weekend and the third one I dated during the week (secretly)Looking back I don't regret it, because I had the time of my life, however... if I could do it again I'd go for the one I actually had the biggest feelings for.Take care of yourself, -(Name usually goes here)
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Looking back on my own highschool relationships (see my column), I can infer that you will be walking into a hornets' nest.
Girls (especially your age) like to play games. Lots of them. There will be gossip, jealousy, and all other kinds of vices as well that you will encounter.
Best way to avoid all this? Probably to stay friends with each of the three as long as you can, and if you really want to go out with one of them, ask them after highschool so that the drama doesn't become heated and cloistered inside your school. It's a long wait, but good things come with patience.
Take care,
lovelynightmare
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Aren't you the casanova in high school? lol/jk.
Take sometime to think about which one you would rather be with. If you still can't decide, you are better off alone without causing havoc among the girls.
Good luck.
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reader, PunkyPippi +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Pick none of them. If none of them really stand out to you as being more compatible than the others, than none of them are the right one. Or, let them all know you're not ready for a serious relationship, and that you do not wish to be exclusive with any of them. If you do decide to casually date them all, BE SURE TO TELL THEM ALL! Nothing pisses a girl off more than a guy who lies to her!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): You choose the one, that is honest (doesn't lie), and treats you with respect. But most importantly you choose the one that treats herself with the most respect. You'll know which one..she'll be the one with a ton of self-confidence and compassion for others. You can't go wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): First of all ask yourself are ready for a relationship right now? If yes, I would get a piece of paper, write down each of these girls names, and next to them jot down the good and the bad about each of them and which ever one out weighs the other thats who I would choose. Its about who you feel for the most. I know you may say you like all of them, but there has got to be one of them you like more. The others you will just have to be upfront with them and hopefully remain "justfriends" Hope this works =) good luck
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Woah.
What an awkward stickey situation you are in...and a personal achievement almost; though it may not seem it at the moment.
Well I can't say more, other than take a step back and think "what do i want?"
When it comes to each of the three girls they should understand...
don't rush into something you have doubts on only to suit the other person. Look at each of them individually and ask yourself can you see it working.
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