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writes: Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. (He's 22 and I am 18) we have a great relationship, lately we have been making out and one thing leads to another and we find ourselves totally naked ready to have sex. I am still a virgin and he isn't. He has been very respectful and patient. I have been the one that stops us from having sex and he is very understanding and doesn't wanna push me to do something I don't want. But I have been thinking about it and I really want him to be my first. My questions are: will he be expecting something totally great? Will he know how fast, slow or gentle to "do things"? Will I be sore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): You should stop being afraid of pain when u have a good patient guy by your side for 2 years.He sound like he has waited long enough to be able to make love to u.If he knows your a virgin and he has been waiting with patient is because he loves u and want to do things right.
Pain may accure.everyones different.
Will u be sore yes cause your body has never experianced sex before.Will he know what to do yes because if he knows your a virgin he will be careful.experinced guyz know what to do unless they get nervous with who they with .If what your really scared of is the pain u can also pleasure him by oral sex if u think your not ready yet for intercourse and he can do the same its always fun.
If u do decide to have sex use condom and extra lub so it can be easy on both of you.Talk 2 him about how u want it to be done or just let the moment go on.just have fun with him he love you cuz if not he would not be waitin for so long unless to be honest he has cheated on u having sex with someone else.But that's just a thought.
Take care have fun and use condomes=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnswering stonebaby38.. I totally forgot to add on that I have just recently got on birth control, and that we will use a condom as well. Thanks for asking and thanks for the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): he seems like a lovely guy, very patient and respectful of u and ur wishes, not many boys are like that.
if you are sure you are ready then yeah, why not?
i do have to say i dont know why everyone seems to say sex hurts so much the first time. everyone is different, and the first time i had sex i wasnt in pain or sore at all.
dont worry, just enjoy each othern x
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reader, stonebaby38  +, writes (19 January 2009):
If you think he is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life then yes.... You won't be sore, it just hurts a lot the first couple times then if you keep having sex often it will eventually stop hurting.. But my question to you is: WHAT IF HE GETS YOU PREGNANT???? Would you be willing to have the baby and take good care if it?? Write me back if you want 2.
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