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writes:I am 15 and need help.I've only ever had real crushes on a couple of guys, like tv stars and a teacher, but they are always so much older than me. I've never gone out with or had a boyfriend.All the guys I know and hear about are all so self obsessed and my friends who go out with them literally get dumped every five seconds and then get a new one - round and round in a circle.So I went through a phase of lesbian fantisies and enjoyed that but then suddenly realised I want men not women, so forced myself out of that habit.Since then I can't seem to feel anything for anyone, not even my previous tv star crushes. This has been for like half a year and with all my other friends obsessive over guys I am getting really worried that I have ruined my feelings for life. Please help me sort my life out. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): well you forced your self to stop the les act dang that sucks guys love it when girls can get down. dont worry you havent found someone you really want to be with and you obviously dont like the 1 second crush thing and on to the next so forget about your friends keep straight with your future and love will find its way in your life
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): You probably just haven't found the right person, I know I haven't yet.
You've got a whole life ahead of you, look forward to the future, things will hopefully soon change for you :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Don't worry, you seem to have quite a mature mind. You probably have gotten too mature for celebrity crushes and the like, but because you see the boys your age as being 'here one day, gone the next', they don't appeal to you anymore. Your probably more mature than your friends in that respect, just wait it out, most boys your age are the same kind of guys, maybe you should try getting to know boys that are a few years older than you, you might find that they are different to all the boys your friends go out with. A lot of girls feel that boys around their age are too immature for relationships, thats why they go for older boys, boys that are mature enough. Hopes this helped x
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reader, Lucyx +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Well Maybe You Have Feelings For Both Men And Women If Your Not Having Specific Thoughts For One Sex. I Dont Think You Have Lost Your Feelings, I Just Think That You Haven't Found The Right Person For You, You May Not Find Them At School. Its Worth Holding On And Waiting Otherwise You Could End Up With Someone You Dont Like Or Just Isn't Right For You.
Take Care
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