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writes:Ok im confused not quite sure where to start. I got a phone call yesterday im in adelaide and its 5:30am now, my sister was arguing with her boyfriend. Not mine to get involved. I know that but its actually something he supposedly said to her. He does everything for her and buys her everything, so i could not believe this. Well, he was talking with a mate and said, (in his words) i wouldnt mind having her and the sister at the same time. Now i am far from interested and i thought we were friends totally off limits. Now its tuff to be in the same room as him, i want to yell and scream at him go nuts and say woah back off! Type of thing. But grrr what do i do. I always seem to give off the wrong vibes! I want him to see im not like that. I am in love with my boyfriend and we are planning a baby. I have been telling my sister to marry him, but now... Can he be trusted? Is he REALLY worth my sisters time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): I wouldn't sorry.He was probably just being an idiot around his mates. A lot, if most, men do this. It's just harmless fun.If it goes beyond a fantasy of his and he actually approaches you and your sister about this, then you will have cause for concern.Flynn 24
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reader, stellaforstar  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Hmm... i don't know about that.
True, everyone has fantasies and they should not be judged on them, but there's something very sleazy about him telling a mate that. You can't base how trustworthy he is based on this, but i wouldn't think someone who said that would be worth MY time. There should be a level of respect in relationships, and to say that out loud to someone else breaks that level of respect for you and especially for your sister.
Basically, i wouldn't judge him for the fantasy in particular, but for the fact that he thought it was appropriate to voice it to someone else. Hope this helps, and good luck with getting pregnant xx
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 I always wanted to make love to sisters or twins. I often say it out loud just to say it knowing that it will probably never happens.
Would you have react the same way if he would have said a threesome with someone else than you? I hope you know that a threesome is almost every guy's dream. Having dreams like that doesn't make a guy any less trust worthy.
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