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30-35,
*ndy1664
writes: ok so im at uni in 1st year and living in student halls. i started to like 1 of my flat mates early on and its grown into more. i mean we always kiss and sleep in each others beds and we have had sex once at the very end of last term. this term started of the same being all how we were last term apart from the fact that she dosent really want to do stuff in the bedroom and i dont know what has changed.i will admit i really like her alot and she knows this and says she likes me aswell and wants us to be together but for some reason she dosent want a relationship which i dont understand. she always tries to avoid any sort of talk about where we are or where were going by not giving straight answers or bby just sayin she dosent know and im really starting to get tired of the whole situation because its been going on now for over 3 months an i would have thought that if she wanted it bad enough it would have happened now.what should i do? or what is she thinking?any help would be appreciated
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reader, SoftlyCaress +, writes (15 January 2009):
I would ask her what her feelings are and where you all stand . could be Like Gina said and she isnt wanting to have a relationship go serious because of study.If you are wanting more let her know and if you two cant agree on it and feel opposite then you might want to let her know you want more and probably move on.
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