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writes:Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. As most of you know Yes, I am pregnant 3 months, This is going to be my FIRST child and im excited. My bf of 3 years tells me not to stress at all. But, what he doesnt realize is that he does it to me the MOST. And its hard on me And I cant talk to him about the things Im stressed about. I need to talk to someone without feeling crazy or going to a head doctor. I need to get some things off my chest without anyone judging me. Is there a forum? Or a hotline? Or anything out there for me? A place? I dont know.. I tried talking to my dad. But, he gets mad at my bf, and I dont want them mad at eachother cuz, my bf told me once he'll dump me if my dad says anything he doesnt like to him. And i dont want to be alone right now? Whats the best thing for me to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ingwell  +, writes (5 October 2013):
I'm totally in the same boat as you . I'm 5 months pregnant And all I feel like doing is crying! I get really stressed and wound up over anything and everything. I think my boyfriend is being selfish, my main argument has started this week. Basically he got invited to a 30th birthday party, for his friend. I don't really like the group of people. I have got really upset and annoyed that he's going, he can't understand and thinks I'm being selfish. I'm just finding it all to much and feel like I have got know were to turn to, know body seems to understand, I can't talk to him as he gets angry all the time.... I don't want to feel like this it's not fair on my baby... Am I being ridiculous?
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (16 January 2009):
I have two, pregnancy is a stressful time but remember this, whatever you feel the baby feels. Just like you're eating to two, be careful; you're living for two, be careful your baby is depending on you. Your boyfriend is not pregnant but how I wish they could have just one baby.
I was stressed about taking care of the baby. If this is your concern, talk to everybody you can. I found the only two major things were babysitting and housing because the father left when he thought I was pregnant. Although pissed, I didn't left this stress me. Keep up your prenatal care bacause your Dr and labor partner are really your best friends.
Explain to your man this is not easy and you need the most support he can muster. Credit him where credit is due and coach him through it.
Let me know how you're doing.
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Just relax and remember... your baby is stressed when you are stressed. Let it all out and talk to one of us on here. good luck!
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reader, dizzikat +, writes (15 January 2009):
During my pregnancy I used the babycentre website a lot, there are forums, loadsa info on there & they send you weekly developmental emails.
Over the next month or so it'll start to get a bit easier, not suddenly noticeably but you'll be less tired & therefore find it easier to deal with your partner.
Pregnancy is fairly stressful & it is likely your partner is not experiencing it all the same way as you. He is trying to help telling you not to stress; there are soooo many things to worry about. Welcome to parenthood it's all fun from here on in! Just relax & enjoy the pregnancy find some other bumps to chat through your worries & concerns with, they will likely be on similar wavelength.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Go to counseling, or talk to a trusted friend or your dad, If your dad gets mad at your bf then there's a reason for him to feel like that.
You can also find anon. counseling numbers online, pick up a phone and make the call. But be ready accept whatever the counselor or whoever gives you advice is gonna say.
Take care of yourself and the baby.
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 hi my name is jenni hearts... goe ahead and e-mail me and i'll be here to listen
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