A
female
age
30-35,
*nomyous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and about a week. Well he asked me to send him some naughty photos but I said no, so I got that going good but every time I see him I'm so attracted to him and I try to do everything to make him want me really bad, and he doesn't seem like he wants me as much as I want him like I know he loves me but I wish he would be more sexual, and I'm not a bad person I just want to have fun, I've never had sex because I'm going to wait till i'm older.... but can you give me any suggestions to what I should wear or look like , I never dress up because I hate it and I don't really have any nice clothes, all I wear is pretty much t-shirt and jeans then I straighten my hair and put on my make up. If you can tell me what to do to turn my boyfriend on more tell me cause I need to know. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, megan1111 +, writes (15 January 2009):
I wish someone had told me what I'm about to tell you when I was younger (then perhaps I wouldn't have two children now).
Talk to your boyfriend and resolve the sex question now. If he's unwilling to wait or keeps pressuring you, let him go. If you break up, it's gonna hurt like hell and you make even feel humilated but it better than having sex when you aren't ready. Most young relationships don't last when they move too fast.
Secondly, ask him what clothes and hair styles he likes. He'll point at women in magizines or at the mall. Odds are if you simply go a MAC or Macy's and have your makeup professionally done, you could wear muumuu and turn him on. But be careful about turning him on, because turning him off will cause problems if he doesn't understand the sexual limits.
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