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How do I get him not to tell anyone else without having a row?

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Question - (15 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2009)
A female Antarctica age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 18 and my fiancee is 30 we have been dating for a while and I think I might be pregnant. I told him that I was late and he suggested waiting a little longer before I took a test. Which I was fine with, then we went round to his parent's house and he told his mum and dad and brother and now I don't know what to do. I've taken a test and I am pregnant but I don't know if I'm ready to have a baby or that I can even start to tell people. How do I get him not to tell anyone else without having a row? Please help I'm really worried xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

I would sit him down and jt explain to him that you are going through something that is uncomon to you. and you would realy apreciate it if he could allow the pair of you to talk together about what you want from this situation and the best descision for you as a COUPLE.

His parents are not part of your relationship, and you should make you mind up betwee the two of you before either of you start spreading the news to anyone, it is NOT their descision to make. You are old enough and mature enough to descide what is best for you, your partner and more importantly for your baby. Then tell your families what you have descided to do.

Best of Luck I hope you become happy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009):

I'm from the UK not Antarctica soz lol

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